trust, betrayal, chances

I have the different views about different views , for love,I can't allow my partner to betray ,if know he cheats me ,I will leave him . Iwill not give chance .there is a chinese saying that is ???????(a good horse will not turn back to crop the old grass ).what past is past.For frienfship ,maybe ,Iwill give him or her a chance to ask him to explain.

Hi friends, I am a cool-headed guy and don't loose my cool often. I feel forgiveness is the best treatment to your enemy, and don't take revenges. But, the only thing I can not stand if someone betrays my trust.I really can not forgive one who betrays me. If someone betrays you, I don't think it is right to give him or her the second chance, as there is no warranty that the person won't betray again.

Personally, I will not give the person the third time. There should be no reason for him/her to hurt me again and again. If there really is a good reason for the hurt or cheating, I could perhaps forgive him/her. But he/she could not do that repeatedly. If I gave the person for more chances, I would think that I will be hurted once again. I am not willing to take that kind of risk really.

Nope......I sometimes don't even give them a second chance. It depends on the situation. If someone stands me up I might give them one more chance though I would never do that to anyone....if someone betrayed me like telling a secret or cheating on me....no way. I don't like having people in my life that are that charater!

if some had detrayed you twice.i think that is terrible and in my opinion that guy is not rewards you to trust to!!happy posting

If someone hurt or betrayed me twice, I would really think about the situation. I would consider the person's personality, the reasons why they did what they did, my feelings toward that person, and whether I would be better off with or without that person. All those things would be the foundation for my decision. In most cases, a person that betrayed me twice would not receive another chance.

it's actually difficult to say. it's still up to you. you need to reassess everything... the reasons of betrayal, the degree and what happened next after that. it is only you who can judge if you can still that person again. i had such bad experiences with betrayal and in my part, i say, twice is already so much. i won't give a person a third try to prove himself or herself renewed and trustworthy again.

honestly, i think i would. in the name of love, i would probably give them a dozen chances. unless the mistake was cheating. then i don't know how i'd feel. if it were a friend, i'd probably be forgiving up to a point. if the person was taking advantage of my kindness, or even my family i would let them know that they are endanger of destroying the friendship. i am a very forgiving person, and i hope it is for the better. i guess it all depends on what kind of person you are.

There's a saying that I like which goes like this: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. If someone has hurt or betrayed you twice I don't think it's wise to invest any more of your emotions on this person. Relationships are based on trust and mutual respect and there seems to be some reason why this person cannot be trustworthy or respectful. You deserve better.

I would always forgive the person if asked however, if it was a friend I would know what I know. If it was a boyfriend I wouldn't give another chance. If it was a spouse I would have to know the exact circumstances before I would say yes I would give them another chance. As I said first, in all cases I would forgive them.