What do you think the reasons why a partner or a lover cheat?
By gloreymay
@gloreymay (882)
Philippines
10 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
4 Aug 08
I think a lot of people cheat because they like the excitement of the chase, and the ego trip of getting what they were chasing, plus sometimes people offer new experiences so to speak, some people find after being together for awhile they are not really sexually compatable, there can be many reasons, I don't know if if they are justified maybe sometimes...
@Nar_87 (181)
• Mongolia
4 Aug 08
Also partner can cheat the other after a quarrel or something like that to have a revenge, or just when they resent the other for a while. At that moment if you are seduced by someone, that's the road to adultery -- I think.
@sweetdesign (5142)
• United States
4 Aug 08
I think that immaturity plays a role. So does lack of commitment. Selfishness certainly plays a role. there are those personalities that want something till they get it then they don't want it anymore. I can't stand cheaters at any rate cause my ex was one.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
4 Aug 08
I dont know what reasons are there that makes them leave or betray or go away with some one else. The main thing is playing your role honestly that makes no one to cheat nor do anything that is really surprising for the other. Being responsible yourself and knowing what is to be done makes everything go right. A boyfriend must know he must not go around with another girl coz he has said those three words I LOVE U to some one else. A husband must not forget that he has committed his whole life in a holy bind of love with his wife. And so the girl also mustnt forget that her guy is her responsibility and her love.
If everyone plays his/her role honestly in their life. Everything goes fine.!
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
4 Aug 08
Cheating is the result of unsatisfied relationships. If partner is not able to satisfy the needs of other then for satisfying one cheats. Second reason is at times is the ego clash where in one is hurt and to hurt another one cheats to punish other.
Thirdly at times someone comes in life who has things which the partner lacks and a person has always been looking for those qualities.
@AnilMehra (48)
• India
4 Aug 08
hii friend.
i think many people or partner cheat only for an change.
or you can another way that they always need the best may be in finance , looks
it can be anything.
we all know that there is someone who is better than us
@falloutvic (222)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Based on my experiences, lovers cheat because they need more attention. The attention you are giving to him/her is insufficient. He/She needs more that's why he/she try to get more attention from others beside you.