Saying "It's Over!"...

It never easy to say its over specially if you have been together for a long time. Well in the rare cases that you have to part ways first assess if your really want to leave your relationship. Chances are something just went wrong so you can still fix it. But if the damage is irreparable for and you really want out then first see if your partner feels the same. Talking almost always solves what is wrong. Still when all answers point to parting ways be very prepared (specially if you have not consulted your partner) because someone or the both of you will get hurt in the process. Never expect that your partner will be alright with your decision and also never expect that she/he won't get hurt and that the friendship will still be there (all wounds heal but only time will tell). Perhaps the really best thing you could do is talk about it and reach a mutual understanding before parting ways. I know entering a relationship is not easy but going out of one is so much harder.

I would tell him that i was in love with him anymore and that we need to move on with out individual lives and that i wanted a divorce.. thats all that i would say to him... I would also say that don't ask why i stopped loveing you cause thats a hard question to answer for me... But i love my husband and that will never happen, I trust and i will never want a divorce...

I think I will tell her in a nice gentle way, that I needed space and being alone. I know she will ask me question why? What went wrong and that is not that easy to explain. It's not easy to let go especially when she loves me very much. It's not being mean to tell her the truth that your just falling out of love.But rather let her feel that she's alone in this world. I'll tell her that I wanna think first I think theirs nothing wrong with it. If she really loves me she will let me be alone by myself first and just be a bestfriend sort of. That I will still be their for her. Have a nice day!

i have this kind of problem right now. i wanted to tell my boyfriend that it's over between us but i just cant. i tried it but he keep on saying that it will work out. so i gave him a chance but after 2 months nothing really happens. when i asked my friend about my situation, she told me if i cant tell him straight let him feel what i really feel right at this moment. im still confused

I guess telling your best partner is the hardest thing to do but being honest would set you free for your entire misery in life and it is also helpful in both side it is very hard at first but it is the best to tell the truth.......