Forgetting your Kids
By alena824
@alena824 (376)
Philippines
August 4, 2008 10:52am CST
I was reading this article about parents of five kids who left one of them at the airport. I don't have kids of my own, but I have 2 nephews and nieces and whenever they are with me, I am always 1000 percent conscious of them. Okay, the family was at the airport and had to catch a flight so I can understand the chaotic minds. But shouldn't parents always be aware of your kids, particularly in a situation such as this? They were on air about 45 minutes and had it not been for a stewardess who noted they only had four kids with them, they would never have known one was missing.
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@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
4 Aug 08
This is a weird story indeed. The one they forgot is only three! Latest when they were in their seats, they should have noticed that one is missing, especially a little one like that. We constantly count heads to make sure we have all together, especially at an airport. At the gate it would have been all kids through before us to make sure everybody is accounted for. With a mad dash to the gate, I'm sorry, I would have held, probably even carried, my three year old. How on earth could a little one like that keep up with the rest? This is irresponsible. It's not like they even thought the kid was with another group.
I guess some people pay less attention than others to their kids. Our neighbors send their two girls (6 and 7) outside by themselves. They are all over the neighborhood. They ask why our kids (just slightly younger) are watched all the time. Apparently their parents make fun of it. Yet, those two girls come over to our house whenever they can to play in the yard. They in their own words feel safer and watched. Just a couple weeks ago, one of them fell hard while riding a bike. She screamed and cried. It wasn't her mom who came out, it was I who had to take care of her. When I brought her home, because I feared she may have a concussion (no helmet!), the mom just shrugged it off, didn't even get off her cell phone, and had her outside again as soon as I went back into my house. The poor girl sat most of the rest of the day holding her head. When I asked her if she felt dizzy, she said her mom said she is fine and that what she felt is not dizziness.... mmmh, some parents care more about themselves...
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@alena824 (376)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
You got that right. And I hate that (non caring parents). I mean as a parent you're even supposed to be there for your kids when they're grown,how much more when they're still little. It's one thing to teach kids about independence, it's another to just let them be without thought to what can harm them. And I'm not even a mom...