What would you do if you fell out of love with longtime boyfriend/girlfriend?

I just need to know how deep is the relationship. If it is only skin deep relationship, I won't bother to refresh my feeling, since it is hard to do, but since you ask about 'long term partner' it should have gone to a steady relationship and deeper feeling. If I am already engaged or married to him/her, I am not gonna let what I have now, gone. It is so hard to find someone who are still in love with us for years and love us even when we're not inlove with them anymore. So I won't let them go, I will refresh my feeling and get back to her very soon

Yes i would just let go cause if the love isn't there than the love isn't there... I was in an situation like that with be my ex.. I had fallin out of love with him and he hadn't.... till this day he probably still loves me even though i am married.. The reason i feel out of love with him was because he became abusive and controlling.. I ended up just leaving him because the love for him wasnt there anymore and i wasnt going to stick around any longer...

i would do everything i can to rekindle the flame of love.after all,you cannot just throw away years of loving.if,no matter how i try,still the love is not there anymore,i would accept the fact that there's nothing i can do to bring it back.i know that letting go is easier said than done.however,i can't do otherwise.some things just don't last forever.i'll be glad that for a moment,i have experienced his love and i will cherish that memory for a lifetime.

i would let go .. no point holding on to something that is not there !! but if someone is deeply in love with me and is faithful to me then falling out of love with them probably wont happen unless thye did something or the way they treat me and stuff

How can you say that you feel out of love? Feel out of love in the sense that you dont want him to hold your hand, kiss you or even feel his presence? the next question is why? Is there any third party? or you just realize that you really dont want to be with him? If that's what you feel there's no reason to stay on it, you'll just be unfair to you and to your boyfriend... You'll be unfiar to your self coz you know you dont want him but still your forcing your self to show that you love him where in deep inside you really dont feel it, action speak louder that voice, even you dont tell it frankly to your boyfriend he will feel it, and someday you'll do something that will hurt him coz the love and care is already not in there... Also you'll be unfair to him because you're making him believe that you still love him, that you still care for him but it is all a lie. If I were you I'll be frank to him, I'll explain to him that its nonsense to be together. I takes two to tanggo, if one dont want to dance the other one has no chance but to stop also even he still want to dance. ASk your self,if you still want him or not, you are the one who can evaluate your self... Have a good day... =)