Do you need to be pretty so that you will be love?

@insulin (2479)
Philippines
August 4, 2008 2:09pm CST
I was scared and confused if one day no one will love me because I'm not pretty and I got skin allergies..:-( I feel so bad because i dont know if someone will gonna love me if my situation is like this...I don't know if it is a big deal or not but I'm losin my self confidence to explore the world ( I don't go so much out side the house anymore)I just don't understand why sometimes its unfair..:-(
4 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
I think it's not usually that a man falls in love with the physical it's also the inner side of a woman. So what if you have allergies, if a man loves you it's for what you are. Don't loose your confidence, or trust to your self. It's how you carry and handle your self. Beauty fades but not the character or the attitude in life. Just having a allergy doesn't mean your not pretty anymore!Have you tried seeing a doctor a dermatologist it will make you feel good then worrying. Have a nice day!
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
Don't fell up set theirs always a cure. Theirs a lot of doctors there to help you with that allergy's it's better to try and try again. Don't feel like it's a hopeless case. Have a nice day! God bless!
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@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
I already got lots of appointments to lots of dermatologist but nothin happen..They said that my skin is super sensitive to all things around me..:-(
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Hi Insulin, You Shouldn't feel bad about something like that... physical attributes are not the basis for love. It may help to attract but it is never the main reason why someone will love you. Immature people think that physical features are the only thing that matters but as you grow older the physical features that they so loved will fade that is why people look to the inner beauty of a person to their attitude and personality. besides I believe that no one person is ugly. that just is not true. Because different types and cultures of people have different standards of beauty. For us it is influenced by Tv and magazines and all that. So there that's my opinion on the matter don't feel bad insulin okay...
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@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Thanks there buddy..I appreciate your words..I was just out of confidence thats why sometimes I think physical appearance is important but I know your definetly right..Thanks for the opinion...:-)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
No prob insulin, there's always a silver liing to the most difficult problems. If a guy doesn't like you because he chose to look on the outer appearance, then that just means hat it's his loss! He doesn'y deserve you anyway...
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@suzu12345 (470)
• India
5 Aug 08
well thats to unanswerable,,well if u nt beautifull,then no one wil ever like u,,i can assure u this,,but if u beautiful and smone likes u ,,then that would not be love,,it would be affection
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@NrgDfenZ (1810)
• Belgium
4 Aug 08
I don't think being beautifull is everything a girl needs to be :) I mean I know LOTS of firl that are 10000000 times more fun and attractive in their own way than the "beautifull" girls.. The inner beats the outer when it comes to love.. Although I hope so.. Have a good day