Will you agree that a married man is a good lover that a bachelor?
By cecelgay
@cecelgay (563)
Philippines
August 4, 2008 8:34pm CST
There are poelple says married man are a good lover than a bachelor because married man knows how to show his care, love and gives his best effort to his woman.....
Sorry to all bachelors in mylot but i will agree on that, married man are more showy than bacholrs, married man are not afraid to show thier feeling... while most of bachelors that i know doesnt really care how thier girlfriend feel, they are busy in so many things... and sometimes they are busy in hunting another girl....
Peace to all bachelors, that is just my view... what is yours?
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@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Here's what I think; love with a married man is certainly more exciting. While that man is not within the reach of any given woman, that woman is feeling a lot more desperate to be with that man. Any intimacy between the two will feel much more intense for that reason alone. I just wish that women would understand that if that married man is cheating on his wife, then he will surely cheat on her some day. You can count on that.
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
5 Aug 08
You can't make a blanket statement like that. There are good lovers both in married and single guys. It depends on the experience of the guy also. Just because a guy is married doesn't automatically make him a good lover. There are a few women out there that would disagree with you. There are a few of my married women friends that when we get together at some time in the evening the subject turns to what your discussion is about. And when women are together katy bar the door any subject can be discussed. The married women that I know wish their husbands were better in bed. They don't get satisfied. And one of the complaints is that when their husband is done he rolls over and goes to sleep.
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@sekhmetgb (462)
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5 Aug 08
Hi
If a married man is giving his best love and his best effort to his woman, what is he doing having other lovers on the side?
@cutieweii (374)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 08
I am not agreeing nor disagreeing as I thought it all depends on the particular person. Some man are good lover before getting married while becoming less considerate after that simply because they are bored with married life. While there were cases where some guy turned into a lover after married.
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@yasha1 (193)
• United States
5 Aug 08
i m totally agree with you becouse when you married some one it becomes a part of your life. he provides you everything love, support, care..Bacholor man does not much cares for you and you can not trust on that person..
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Aug 08
Dear friend,
I am married and at the verge of divorce, I do hope it entirely depend upon how romantic one is whether married or bachelor. It also depends how well one lady behave to that person. Hence I being more like a lover is mostly based one own way of being romantic. Even a kid could behave much romantic I hope it depends a individuals character or his ability to love. May be as you noted majority of married people may have experience hence they may tend to be good lovers.
@truartiss (386)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Um. I agree with you, cecelgay. I think that a married man is a much better lover than a bachelor. A bachelor is not out looking for love or intimacy. A married man knows, or should know, how to love a woman and how to treat her. A bachelor doesn't show all of the emotions that a married man shows.
@manunulat (604)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Married man is not afraid to show their affection because being into a relationship with him with a single person boosts his self-esteem, that despite he's married... he can still be attractive and can enjoy what a single guy would have. On the other hand, they could be good lovers in the aspect that they have already enough experience in committed relationships like that and committed relationships oftentimes have a higher degree of communication. I don't think being married gives a guarantee that he is a good lover. There is something wrong in the marriage that is why a man resort to illicit affair like that. On the other hand, singles often are not that affectionate because each have a degree of priority/ies that are not solely on their girlfriends. And yes, some are busy hunting on another girl because there is no commitment but there are singles who could stick to one woman. It's just a matter of how singles view their freedom.
@swennerholm (664)
• Sweden
5 Aug 08
I dont think so coz my husband before we got married he was bachelor then he care for me a lots.But i think that depend on guy there are some guy who is married before but they dont care about there partner,I think that depend on the way how much he love his partner.That is my opinion in that matter.