My husband is a PIG

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Ok, I was really hoping that things had changed from when we were dating. About a year into our dating, my now husband, cheated on me and actually moved out on me and the kids for two weeks. We were having troubles getting along and had the same issues every young couples face. Mostly just the learning to compromise and realize that the decisions we make effect each other. Anyway, last week my little brother's girlfriend showed me some texts that Brandon had sent her. They were nasty. They were definatly not appropriate to send your brother in laws girlfriend. My husband tried to tell me he didn't remember sending her anything bad, then his story changed to it was just joking and playing around, and finally tonight he decided he wanted to 'talk' but didn't want to tell me anything....The first thing wrong is that innocent people dont hide things if they aren't doing anything wrong, like my brothers girlfriend telling my brother and me about the things he wrote....in my mind I can believe she was just making chit chat like normal because she seemed genuinly upset about it when she told us and she is a good kid (19). Brandon on the other hand, lied about saying anything to begin with but when he found out I talked to her and she still had the texts on her phone he changed his story. I told him I'm fed up and will no longer be sharing a room with him. I sent in for a study guide the other day to try and get a job at the post office and have applied for a job at the local hospital. I told him that once I get a job that will allow me to support the three kids that I would probably be moving out. I am just tired of his crap and feel that he miss treated my brother. My parents divorced when I was 11 and my brother and I lived with dad growing up. Dad worked 16 hour days so he was gone early and home late so I went to parent teacher meetings, helped with homework, and cooked for my brother. Spending our childhood like this made me very protective of him, almost like a mom so the worst thing in the world that my husband could have done was something that could cause my brother any hurt and pain. Any advice?