love or lust?
By lovelyvon
@lovelyvon (75)
United States
August 5, 2008 6:35am CST
i have a boyfriend right now, he always say that he really loves me and i believe that but now, when time goes by i feel that he doesn't love me, and what he feel for me is just lust and not love, i really don't know what to think about him because when i ask him, he will just say that he really loves me but i know what i feel for him for what he try to do on this few days...so i just want someone to tell me, that am i right or wrong for what I've seen for him on this few weeks base of what I've said here? please do reply and give some comment, thanks!
7 responses
@linyesusanna (15)
• China
6 Aug 08
I never encounter such an acassion,but in my clear mind, he just expressed his love for you by conquering you. this is in the material level which mean he just wants to satisfy himself by sexy.
I am sorry for not offering your an value suggestion for I could not comment more only based what you said above. Hope you can find a way to rescure yourself, Bless you!!
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
6 Aug 08
Its really difficult to judge a person without knowing him.If you feel uncomfortable and have doubts you have to talk to him frankly and find out.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
I think lust is just a spice of being in love. But when you feel that your only use and you have doubts with him tell him so. I think their is nothing wrong telling what you feel. So he can also clarify what he feels. It's to hard to conclude feelings and emotions and intuitions that sometimes it's also unfair for both of you. Don't make it complicated life is so simple. Talk to him and lay down your cards girls. Have a nice day!
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
5 Aug 08
Well my friend,this is tough to answer since you didn't even cite an example.But what I would say is,first,don't get upset.Second,ask yourself a question that why are you feeling this way.Third,has he changed?Fourth,are you expecting a lot more of affection from him than before.Don't take things negatively and spoil a beautiful relationship.Just figure out,what is exactly that is missing out and most important thing spent some more time with him,have a good talk.Goodluck!
@daninuk (145)
• United States
6 Aug 08
although it's possible that what you think is right, you should still take into consideration the fact that it's often difficult for someone to tell another person they love them and not mean it. so this mean that you have to think about your bfs overall personality before making any rash judgments
@redzredula (466)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
it is better if you really tell him how you feel because as i can understand in your situation your now suffering which you must set your feelings free to achieve inner peace in you...
