Dating Tips/Advice?
By mimico
@mimico (3617)
Philippines
August 5, 2008 9:42am CST
Hello myLotters! I'm one of the few "single since birth" people left and I haven't done a lot of dating. Lately, a lot of my friends are finding me suitable guys to date. It's really exciting, but I'm nervous at the same time. I don't know what to do and what to wear and what topics to talk about. Can you guys help me please? Advice would be appreciated! Thanks. :D
5 responses
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
6 Aug 08
just relax and try to find a common interest between both you and the other person.
go for a walk, hang out at a cafe, music in the background, in some entertainment arena where there is something to watch and chat about for ice breaker.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
5 Aug 08
wear whats comfortable, be yourself, smile, read, so you have stuff to talk about, also, if you show interest in the other peson (ask them hobbies etc) i find this is a very good way of making the other person feel comfortable...you are bound to be nervous, but dont sweat it...the other person prolly is also.
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
JUst try to be yourself though it was really hard. Wear something comfortable but be sure it was in proper place. You know what I mean, don't wear jeans if you were about to eat in a five star hotels ok? With regards to topics, start to know the person by asking his personal background but don't make it too detailed like a biodata thing. Just know some things about him his like and dislike for example from then you will be able to know what's his interest and start a different conversation. But don't forget to enjoy the date and say thank you. Goodluck!
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Hi there!
Just be yourself! Always keep smiling too. That would make you look sweeter. Don't wear to much make up. Natural beauty is still the best.
With regards to your outfit, I think it would depend what time and the place that you're gonna be dating. If its evening maybe you can wear something sleek cause evening dates are more romantic. If its daytime then casual wear would be appropriate. Just don't wear something too much sexy so as not to give the guy a wrong impression. Most importantly wear what comfortable.
Be a good listener when he talks. Look at his eyes and let him know that you're interested in what he's saying.
Hope that helps. Good luck with the date!