how do you belive the man of god

If a man is truly a God taught Christian teacher he will never give you a reason to not trust him.Too often man puts himself in the position of Christian Teacher and God has nothing to do with it. A true Christian Teacher is not your every day man (Or Woman). And yes a woman (wife, mother) has just as much or more of a role as a Christian Teacher than the husband does. It is usually the Mothers duty to do most of the Christian teaching of the children in the most important stage of their life. As Jesus said "bend the twig while it is young". That is usually the mothers job and if she does it right the child will probably not have a need to go to church and listen to the "Man of God" as you put it.

I like that! 'Til deaf do us part? One of the couple usually does turn a deaf ear on the other one, or they both do! It is ok, some religions do not let the pastor get married at all! Some even break their bond with God, and stop being pastors. It 's out of your control. God forgives us all, and we are all sinners! We all make mistakes. We cannot judge others as it is not good for us to do anyway!