sisters are supposed to be there for u

Canada
August 5, 2008 7:14pm CST
I was in a really sad mood and as usual my sister does what she always does and makes things about her. I don't get why she does this. Me and her are supposed to be able to be there for eachother but for some reason she won't let me in. Sometimes I wonder if certain sisters are not meant to be really close or if it is just me and her. I know sibling rivalry is a factor but there has to be more... any advice?
1 response
• United States
6 Aug 08
well I'm not close to any of my brothers (i don't have sisters) I used to be pretty close to some of them, but they stab everyone in the back, and only come around when they want something. that's basically how my whole family is, I've learned to live with it, and my life is just fine with out them. it is sad when it comes to that but I have my own family and can care less. just live your own life is all i can tell you. sorry that i couldn't give better advice, but you can force her to have a relationship with you.
• India
6 Aug 08
May be it is your situation dear friend. And I am sorry for it. But with me its different I am just very luckyto have my sister and brother. My sister who is always there to support me and help me when im in trouble and to advice me when I am doing wrong things. and my brother is always there to protect me. Though he is been little rude I feel at some situation they have to be like that. and even I have tried to be agood sister always. Its very lucky to have a good family.