when it is the right time to say it is over now?
By izathewzia
@izathewzia (5134)
Philippines
12 responses
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
Maybe, the right time to say "it is over now" to someone is when you already know that you don't love him/her anymore.. There is no more love that you feel for him/her.. You are already convince and very sure that you don't love him/her and you don't want him anymore to stay in your life.. It is hard to decide or to let go to someone who is still owns your heart but if there is no love that you feel for that person then it will be easy for you to tell him/her.. I am not sure with my opinion because I didn't experience yet this kind of situation.. I love my boyfriend so much and I can't let him go.. Anyways, happy posting..
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
No need to stay in a relationship if there is no more love in your heart for your partner.
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
6 Aug 08
I thing when a good time to say its over when there is no love for each other left.. There is nothing left inside for each other... I think that if you don't have nothing left for each other than is a great time to end the relationship.. I have experienced this with my ex and he became controlling and abusive, we dated for three years and about the second year seemed like it was going down hill fast thats when he seemed like he was getting abusive...
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@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
i guess it is right to say it is over when you feel tired and unhappy with the relationship you are in. because being unhappy and unsatisfied will never grow any love between the two of you. it will only cause the two of you hurting and more crying. sad to say there are still men and women who are hurting and has the right time to say everything is over but won't do anything yet because of the love and pity they feel on their partners when they leave them behind.
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@payout (3794)
• United States
6 Aug 08
OMg I find this awkward.. how are you able to bold all your text without even having 500 post. Thats just weird you only can do that with 500 post..? Hahah you must be lucky or something because your the first person I ever seen without 500 post to use bold and underline and the smileys and etc.. Hummm.. I hope it's not a trick or whatever lol.. ha ha well yeah I was just wondering.. anyway take care and keep posting.. and have a nice day and take care and Happy Mylotting.. HAHA I'm annoying lol..
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
Yes, that is right, when the feeling is gone there is no need to hold on.
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
if you did everything to make the relatinship work it and it didnt. i think thats the time to separate and live. cause whatever you do it wont work out. start with your life and enjoy life.
@agamer (45)
• United States
6 Aug 08
well it depends, i like to get it over with, never pretend to like your boyfriend/girlfriend. itll just make things even worse if they find out. if they are going to a rough time, say you will comfort them as a friend, and let them go gently, who knows, maybe they will think the same. and never make it this huge deal, try to make it as painless as possible for both of you
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@agamer (45)
• United States
6 Aug 08
sorry, i misread the quiestion, i thought you were asking when the timing would be right, but the situation, id say when you guys are lieing to each other or fighting more, and just getting on each others nerves, and if you are thinking that trust is fading, you should talk to them to reassure your assumption before ending anything, like one of the other posts before me mentioned, i agree, once the respect is gone, its a good call to call it quits on the relationship
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
When you think that your not happy anymore. When it's not healthy relationship anymore that eithen you compete with each other or pulling each other down. When you feel already emptiness even the person is there. When it's already a one way street,when you can't see anything good anymore with the relationship. When their is no love anymore that you feel. alot of other reasons. Have a nice day!
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
It is really shaky wen you take happiness out of a relationship.
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
For me, a relationship can't go on anymore if the respect is gone. It's truly hard to love someone when you can barely tolerate their words and actions. With respect, comes acceptance. Acceptance of who that person really is. They say that to truly love someone, we should accept them for who they really are.
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
Trust will make the relationship survive. Together with love.
@payout (3794)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Haha well I fall in the category lol.. of not experiencing Love lol.. To be honest I don't think Love doesn't have a Limit..? but most things do have there limits lol.. Anyway back to you question I would think if I was in the situation and I was tired and over with all this stuff. I think it would be a good time to say it's over when it's over lol.
I wouldn't just wait and hold it back in. lol.. I'll tell them ASAP, I don't think it's good to hold things back lol.. but thats just my opinion. :D IF you trust that person you love and think there able to change then give them another chance. IF not then I guess it's over. Well yeah Hopefully My advice will help take care.. :D Happy Mylotting.