i am a new mom and still don't know what to do!

The feeling you have is very normal. As a mom of a 2 year old I know how you feel. It is to bad that we cannot take the pain for our children, but then I guess they would have a hard time with life. Congrats on your new baby and hang in there!!!

We're on the same boat! And I can just suggest that make more time for her and always watch her. Being a mom is really tough and its all hardwork. It is really hard to know what our baby wants and needs cause they can't talk to us the only communication they knew is crying or laughing so better see/watch her always.

i have just checked her pictures. i must say she is damn cute.. its quite natural for you to panic when she cries. i think it will ease with time.and hope she is doing well.

I remember when I had my first baby. Everything was so new and scary. I cried just as much as she did, but we got there in the end. You see, I had to learn to trust in my own instincts. Once I was able to, things began to go a lot smoother. Think of her having her needles as protecting her from the nasty viruses etc that she could get if she didn't have the needles. We do what we can to protect our children, and immunisations are just part of that protection. She will forgive you because you are her mummy. I'm now looking after my 5 children, and with the youngest not even 2 weeks old, I still have panic moments. I just remind myself that I already know what I have to do and then find the easiest way to do it. You want to be a better mum to your baby? You are already the best mum in the world for your daughter, and I hope she knows how special she really is.

I had the same feeling when my son was still a baby. I think, it's but natural for moms to feel that way. Everytime my son cried coz of pain I can also feel the pain. I was always worried coz I never knew what's hurting him if babies could only convey their messages in words, it would have been better. But it's not. If you really don't know what to do on certain things regarding your baby, it would be best if you ask somebody who knows more about it. Like the old ones, your parents or doctors. It's very essential to have assistance that can guid you all the way. Righ now, my son is already 2 yrs and 8months old and if he's not feeling well, I am still panicky.

Im not a mom yet but i haved a baby sitter many times with my neice and nephews.When the baby felt hurt and crying just dont go panic try to find ways so that she/he stop crying or feel hurt.I think you really dont need advice,coz I know you can be a good mom to your cute baby.and also evry mom in the world will do for there babies.

Sounds like to me you are doing everything right. Babies can only cry when they need or want something and when they get shots it is harder, been there with 8 kids so far. Hugging and holding her is exactly what she needs, to know that you are there. I know that it isnt alot of comfort when you hear your baby crying in discomfort but it is all we can do at times. Later you will be able to tell what each cry is for if you havent already figured it out and that will make it a little easier. There is the gas relief that you can buy if she cries all the time after eating, it works! Anyways you are doing it all right and it will even get better, well until they hit the pre-teens .. lol

Awww, hugs to you! Your baby looks adorable. Don't worry, I think every parent s like that for their first baby. I have a two year old daughter and when she does not feel well, I panic. HOWEVER, I don't show people that I'm panicky because the baby feels it. If the mom panics, the baby will also feel scared. So lesson for you, be strong for your baby. Simple things. When she has her booster shot, hug her tightly and try to soothe her. Tell her she's so brave and it's okay. Mommy's with her and the pain will go away at once. You'll get the hang of it.

Just do what you believe is best for your child, there is nothing that can keep you from being a great mom.

First of all, her pictures are adorable. Congrats on your new little jewel! Next, take a deep breath. You are doing great and will be a wonderful mommy for your little girl. The feelings you are having are normal. It won't help you or her to panic. You have to tune into your mother's instincts because they never fail you. But you have to be taking care of yourself in order to be intune with yourself. You are on the greatest journey of your life. Enjoy every moment of it because they grow up so fast.

You have to believe that everything will become better and better. Now your baby is 3 months old and soon she will be 6 years old. And then she can walk and talk soon:) She is already doing much more better when she was born, isn't she?:) I experienced the same like you, now my son is already 4 years old and he went to the kindergarten already. I love China

Every good mom feels panicky. I think your a great mom. And your baby is so cute!

ive into the same situation before. i was married at 24 gave birth at 25. since, its my first im confused on what to feel. specially at time of delivery. i even didnt know how to labor. hahaha. when my daughter is out i even ask my ob why my daughter is not crying. the next thing i know is i wake up in my room already. when we got home my daughter is sleeping the whole day. so i ask my daughters nanny how can i give her milk shes sleeping the whole time. she told me that the baby will cry if shes hungry. but im not satisfied with the answer. so what i did, i wake her up and give her milk. i bathe her every morning. its like im playing with a doll. hahaha. hard but it made you complete as a woman.

you may get some experience from your friend and relation who was a mum.don't worry about it,as a new mum,practice makes perfect!

nope, being a mother is totally a learning experience and requires on the job training! i remember when my girls were younger and how long it took me to get into the swing of things (it didnt help that i had c sections with both!) hang in there!!!

I found nothing worked better than a good long cuddle and soft words in their ears when they were crying for no reason, that said sometimes they cry just for hearing their own voices dont forget they are learning even now. As for when they arent well I cope fine with normal coughs colds etc but both my girls have been hospitalised with suspected meningitus and both times I couldnt stop the panic from rising it never stops im afraid but its only because we love them that it scares us so its not really a bad thing. Your daughter is beautiful I had to add that a real little sweetheart she looks the picture of health so I reckon its safe to say youre doing a fantastic job xxx

Just by reading your post reminds me when I give birth to my first baby. God has given me a healthy son. He is everything to me, my happiness. First time mom is full of hardships. There are many first thing to do. I was never been prepared for it. Thanks God my mom was there all the time to support me.

LOL, you feel that way always with a new baby. There is nothing you can do to be a better mom. As the child is learning so are you and you are doing the right thing by just soothing her. Give her a little tempra if she has a fever and hold her. When my daughter cried all the time, I didn't know what to do, i tried everything and didn't know why she was crying, then I'd start to cry and i'd call my mom! My daughter is 5 now and it does get easier on knowing what to do but I'm still learing with her. I still don't always know what to do and I turn to my mom for help. You are doing everything you should be doing: feeding her, changing her, cuddling her and making sure she is warm and protected. That's a mom's job. You're doing just fine!

You are doing everything right! When babies cry out sometimes that's all they want is the secure feeling of being held especially at a young age. I had my first son at 17. I was terrified. I didn't want to be left alone with him. I was constantly thinking "what if something happens? What will i do" I kept my mom on speed dial. It does get alot easier. You'll learn what the cries mean. Is your daughter on a feeding schedule? That helps alot to know ok I just her at this time. It helps to rule out one thing or another. Give her gas drops if she starts to ball up when she cries. They are not harmful at all. Sometimes babies can tell what mood we are in a moms so just try to breathe in and out and relax. It doesn't sound like much but it does help. Try singing to her when you rock her also. Our voice may not sound like much to us but it's all they know and have heard for nine months. I hope this helps Good Luck and Congratulations!

yes, it's quite natural for all new moms to panic. i felt that, too, when i had my first baby 9 years ago. that's why it's ideal to have a good support system--your family, especially your own mother, can guide you. this also forms a special bond between you and your mother because you learn to appreciate what she did for you and how she raised you as you go through motherhood yourself. just remember to always be there for your baby--emotionally, physically. his welfare should always be your top priority. at this point, you begin to feel less selfish as you think more of your child's well-being. good luck, new mommy!