about lie
By visupatel23
@visupatel23 (30)
August 6, 2008 10:52am CST
In our life many times we have to speak lie, for not harm to oters but somewhere for us only...ex. boss ask us, why u late?,in collage,about submittion of our projects, in school, about home works.... and many other things where we are speaking lie...I am really not opposing it.sometime we have to speak lie in our life. whats your beautiful opinion?
1 response
@jands1 (835)
• United States
6 Aug 08
If you are quick witted, you can often obfuscate the truth or evade it rather than lie.
I have found, through the course of my life's journey, that because so many so rarely tell the truth, that when I am in a situation such as you gave, I tell the truth with good results. Example you gave was, "...boss ask us, why u late?..."
I have been in this situation. I told the truth, "Just wasn't feeling like coming in. Do you ever feel that way?" He was so startled by my honest response and then redirecting to him to create a shared experience he agreed, laughed and thanked me for coming in despite not wanting to. Win/Win for me. :D
@visupatel23 (30)
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13 Aug 08
yes.....many times...i am trying to say truth but sometime i have to do it......i am a businessman...you are really right....i have to learn from u...thanks.....
