Rejected Twice???

just move on. if it isnt meant to be, it isnt meant to be. if u force things, u will end up being a single mother with kids and probably take care of them on ur own...what a hard life... a good relationship is mutual..both sides have to have similar feelings or it wont work out...it takes 2 to make it work...

Hello Tamara, sometimes our dreams/nightmares don't make much sense at all. Maybe something happened that day of you being rejected and your sub concious was thinking about it and then you dreamt that night of your ex rejecting you. Don't worry I don't think it means that you want your ex back. I feel physically ill after my nightmare last night, I dreamt that I was stabbed in the heart. I remember seeing myself run to the hospital and I fainted on the hospital floor. Then I saw them stich me up, not sure what happened next, I woke up then. Can't work out why I had this horrible nightmare, wish I could get these awful thoughts out of my head.

oh oh tarama i don't know if i should laugh or feel sad for you. it must be really weird to dream about someone who hurt you so many years ago. the dream can mean so many things! it could be a symbol of a longing that you've had that isn't satisfied. it could also be something you saw before you sleep that triggered an image of your ex boyfriend. it could also be that you finally let the sadness and anger go, so it's like a finale before it's over.

I read in an advice column that real relationships can never compete with imaginary ones. Perhaps your subconscious is remembering the good parts of the relationship and missing them.

that is so sad tamara, but in a way sweet because we long for our youth. i often dream im young again and having flirting and courting going on with someone i knew years ago. but the ones i like best are the ones with my late hubby in them and hes still alive in the dream. i try to go back to sleep and dream more of him but it dont work often

Not everything in a dream is that cut and dry. Every piece to the dream is a clue to what the subconscious is trying to tell you. There are clues in everyday life that the subconscious picks up on. Break down your dream into many visual clues. I also recommend keeping a dream journal. There are books that will teach you what every symbol is suppose to mean. Blessed be

I would say you are stressing out over something current. Take a deep hard look at who you are dating now or maybe a spouse your having issues with. Could just be a random dream that we all have no and again. Good Luck

Hello Tamara... I hope you don't mind me coming in on your discussion, especially so long after it was posted, but I stumbled across this. It stood out because I do translate dreams and feel I can give you some insight to yours. I will just state what I feel the dream meant, and be gone, but before I leave, there is another... the stab in the heart one... I would like to translate for one of your respondents. I do hope that's ok with you. Before I start, let me point out that dreams are never literal. They are signs from your unconscious of your feelings; your inner thoughts, which are brought to you in your dreams. Right... You were sitting alone in a cocktail bar at the start of your dream. The fact that you were alone, indicates feelings of rejection. You may have been feeling that no one understood you at this time. The bar environment depicts your desire to escape the stresses of your daily life and retreat into a light-hearted environment to enjoy some pleasure time, or, on the other hand, it could mean that you were seeking acceptance in some area of your daily life. You were possibly feeling excluded or held back by some circumstances which were beyond your control at the time of this dream.  Your ex-boyfriend walks in with the girl he left you for… I don’t think she plays too big a part in this, except for the fact that he left you for her, and that’s what sticks in your mind. The return of this ex from your youth, would seem to indicate that your relationship with him was a freer, less encumbered one than the one you enjoy now, with your hubby. This part of the dream takes you back to a time when the responsibilities of marriage didn’t interfere with the romance, excitement, freedom and vitality of youth that you enjoyed in your younger days. This would appear to be lacking in your present relationship, and you long to get it back… this would be indicated by your moveing closer to your ex and the yearning feeling you had on awakening. The yearning wasn’t particularly for the ex, it was for those qualities of youth that you lost when you parted with him. The number three, in being the three main characters, might be indicating something here. Three signifies life, vitality, inner strength, imagination, creativity, energy and completion. It also stands for trilogy, as in the past, present and future, and this to me, would make sense. I know you have those qualities… apart from perhaps, completion. Something is not quite complete in your life, or not quite to your complete satisfaction, and I believe that you’re feeling a little neglected in your current relationship, or taken for granted might be a better way of putting it. Seeing and hearing people staring and laughing at you suggests two things; the laughter represents humiliation or helplessness and the staring, that you are hope someone would look your way more often, or it could be showing you anxiety or pride. Only you can know the true meaning of your dreams. This is a general translation, out of which you might be able to glean something which is relevant to your life, and your current relationship. Perhaps you feel you’re missing out on something… the romance, excitement and freedom that you enjoyed all those years ago, and which you are yearning to get back into your current relationship and life. You’re tired of the same old routine and you have a need to get out together with your partner and do something exciting; something exhilarating, every so often. Most of all, you need to feel free… to escape the bonds of the home, and to be like two young lovers again! You need to get that “happy” feeling back into your life, and to get that spring back in your step which you once had. It’s time to set about reviving your current relationship to the way it was when you married. Get some of the mystery and freedom back, and enjoy more quality time together, for that’s what you’re missing most, to my mind. I would be interested to know if I’ve come anywhere close with this translation as I’ve been doing it for over a year now, but am still learning, and appreciate feedback. But, if you’d rather not, then it’s your choice. Thank you for reading it at least… it’s food for thought, and I wanted to help you understand your dream. Brightest Blessings.

Hi Tamara...to me it seems like you are wanting to do something that is missing in your life at the moment but there is something blocking you that is why you are so close to your aim in life but something is 'blocking' you doing it...it is also something that you are yearning for or just feel you need...it could also mean that you are trying to escape from something you are or having to do in your life...maybe it may be something that also needs cleansing before whatever it could be before you can carry on...hope this makes some sense to you bright blessings littleowl

I bet you saw someone on tv that looked just like him...or at least had some of his features/mannerisms. Maybe you should try and look him up...could be a sign. You never know, he could be thinking about you, too.

yes,we also do a lot of dream in night,and we sometimes.i also do many strange dreams in my sleep too.and i will forget the dreams that i have done in my sleep.but i also can remind i had done a lot of dreams in night.

Oh you poor thing! Tamara, IT WAS JUST A DREAM! I don't know why we have crazy dreams but we do. I have crazy unxplained dreams about X's all the time that can't be explained and I just forget about them! They are X's for a good reason! Think of all the bad things that he did to you! It will come back to you, I'm sure. I know it feels wierd like it happened for a reason, but that's why we have stupid dreams! I really hope you can reason this one out and feel better because I know how these things can tug at your heart sometimes, believe me I've been there so I'm talking to you from experience. I wish I knew some way to tell you to forget that you even had the dream, you will in time. Just try to concentrate on something else more pleasant! If not pm me and I'll help you!

hi tamara... i feel u were deeply in love with him and u are missing him a lot. and amybe u still love him and u r not sure how correct u are in doing so because he already has a girlfriend. it usually takes a long time to get out of such hesrt burns. dont think abt this dream too much,just laugh over it and forget because u cant do anything else now....

dont worry my dear tamara.he is your exboyfriend.dont think about him.if he is a good person then try to convince him that you really love him,otherwise dont.let him rome with some girls according to your dream.be strong.dont force him to love you, because a person who loves you under some pressure is not a real lover.if you really love him so much then try to change him with your affection.if he changes he will never leave you again. a good person changes into a bad person,a bad person who became good will never change into bad