Forever and Ever

@lisa0351 (303)
United States
August 7, 2008 12:27am CST
I was just thinking tonight, my husband is sleeping on the couch and I was just wondering. I couldn't imagine ever losing him, ever. It just seems impossible, what I would do if anything ever happened to him or he left me. I guess maybe I'm just thinking out loud, but I can't even stand to think about things like this. Doesn't it seem like life is forever and never ending, I think it is too often taken for granted. I know life does end, and someday we will all die, I just don't ever want to imagine the day I lose him. Anyone else feel like this about someone you love? Share your story and thoughts.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
7 Aug 08
yes it is a horrible thought, I have lost so many people in the last couple of years that I am almost scared to get too close to people as it is hard getting used to losing people, I guess after the last friend that I lost I have started thinking maybe it is better to just adjust to life this way and not get to that stage of depending on someone just to lose them....I can see you love this person so much he is very lucky to have some that cares so much, make the most of your time together because the one thing for sure is nothing is forever..believe me....
@Elixiress (3878)
7 Aug 08
Why is he sleeping on the couch? At first I assumed it was because you were in a middle of an argument, but if you feel like this then isn't the sensible thing to do to sleep in the same bed, so I assumed it was not. I do not think in the long term, so many things change from one day to the next that I do not think about love in the long term, maybe a few months ahead to plan holidays or presents, but no further.
@lisa0351 (303)
• United States
7 Aug 08
I guess I should have clarified, it did make it sound like we were fighting. We were watching a movie, and I was hanging out online, he just fell asleep! I guess sometimes when you see someone sleep and how peaceful they are, it makes you start thinking. I just couldn't imagine life without him, ever!
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
such a sad thought and more often than not i know i am always on the side of denying thus to convince myself i would always think of the situation the other way like what if i am gone would he ever survive?
@Elixiress (3878)
8 Aug 08
Oh right. Just one of my parents always sleep on the couch, since my Dad is a noisy sleeper and this annoys my Mam, so it ends up with them arguing if they sleep in the same bed. So if other couples sleep in separate rooms, I tend to assume it is something simular.
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
I feel the same way for my boyfriend. I love him so much I cant imagine how this life’s going to be without him. we are just so inlove with each other, I cant imagine what if one day I suddenly lose him or he’ll have a change of heart. I know he is a good person and he has proven several times of how much he loves me and how much he cares. I just hope that when that day comes it will be all worth it. We still want to spend our lives together, grow old together, have our own family..there are so much that still needs to be done, and we want to grow old together and still love each other even when our hair turns gray or have wrinkles all over. I love him so much, I cant explain it..it’s more than loving and friendship.. it’s something we both feel that I cant put into words..i love him.. I really do..
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
Good day... I love my partner and I will love her until the day I die. It's really hard to be left by someone you dearly love. It's hard to imagine the day where you will be left alone in your bed, alone in your table to eat and alone in the house.
• India
8 Aug 08
the similar feeling i never had for anybody. any one who is born is bound to die. so you can not expect forever. the only thing that comes to my mind is this. you can pray to god. tell him let me die before my husband . that way the presence of your husband in your life is for forever and forever. you can enjoy the eternal bliss till you end. yes, also pray to him to keep you at the same place in heaven.
• India
7 Aug 08
well nobody knows what next. u got to enjoy this moment so much that u will never have to repent about anything.well it havn't quite happened to me and i dont want it as well. but u never know.....time and tide wait for none...
@subha12 (18441)
• India
7 Aug 08
its because you love this person so much. its hard for you to think taht he will be not there for you always. its really a nice and strong relationship what i can guess.
@alori61 (344)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Had I known my husband was going to go to sleep healthy one night and never wake up again I would have done so many things differently then I did. Now I make sure those I love know how I feel so if it happens again there will be no dought or question of the love we shared. Never assume there will be a tomorrow because there just might not be.
@abhaijith (2963)
• India
7 Aug 08
Its Fact that we all have to lose each other.we all are just guests here.Am not yet thought about it,Better to say i can't even imagine it. Thanks.
• Sweden
7 Aug 08
I felt the same too,I cant ímagine how my life would be with out my husband,I know that this is natural in our life but i dont know if this happen what will i do.I never think like that coz i dont want to lose my husband because he´s been a half of my life.