i'm losing my temper

she was like that since we were in elementary, now we are all professionals and she never changed, it will now be always like this, if she had problems, we have problems too, we can't always be there to understand her, she's a grow-up now, that's why its very difficult for her to mingle with other people because of her attitude.

ok, i think we cant handle them unless and untill they themself understand this problem, If se undersant that she have the behavioral issue or if some one write a note saying that "you are so nice but you dont allow you goodness to come out, you are stubborn and hard handed, if you want to be happy in your personal life and professional life you need to change," but she should not know who wrote it, because it may hurt /insult her. I have done this, you can also try.

yes, we can't handle them, but we have to accept her, because she is our friend, its just that sometimes, we have to make them feel that what they do was wrong and selfish.