can fathers ever be like mothers

i dont think so, mothers are really very caring and loving. they will give all their time for their kids. maybe some dad can do it also, cause my dad is really a very good father and very supportive. but most of the time its really the mother who do the best thing for heir kids.

Hi buddy in my point of view no one can take place of our beautiful mom.She is one who every time thing for her childerns even she is so hungry.She becomes sad when her childern r not happy.She always paryers even some of her childern cheated and don't respect.But she is full of blessing.So in my point of view no one can take place of mom.So it is my advise to all buddies that never break the heart of mom,always server for the mom. My sweet mom i love more Ameet Kumar rajaameet@hotmail.com

Hi there, You should have given a question mark there. No both can never equal each other. the duties of both are different. Mothr is the one who gives you the emotional and loving care that you always ask and yearn for. You can go to your mother when you feel the need. But fathers are there for you. You can depend on them for everything as a child you might. There are some fathers who can give emotional support too if it is needed. Mothers are what you need for the love and affection, care and everything you need , you will get without you asking for it. Even after you have become an adult for a mother you are still her son, her daughter. she'll never grow out of that role.

Of course...I personally experienced that with my husband. When our baby was young my husband woke up at night to make some milk for our baby. And during the days he cared for our baby to be sure that the baby always in safe. He really loves our son that's why he always do the best for him.

I don't know exactly but my husband is jobless for I got pregnant during his last year in College. I was working already before I got pregnant so I had to get back to work after I delivered our baby. He's got no choice but to be the one to take care of our son. Somehow, when I look at him giving my son a bath, feeding him, dressing him up...he actually is a little tough but full of care. Inch by inch when he takes care of him, he does it with perfection as if like he really knows how to do things. But in terms of discipline, he's too rough. Just enough to make sure that the dchild doesn't go beyond the boarders. I envy him sometimes when I watch him sing and dance or doing the Barney song with my son. Basically based on my observation sometimes he's confused whether to be hard or gentle to our son coz I wasn't there most of the time to keep things in balance. In your question if fathers can ever be like mothers...maybe I should say yes.