My child started to sleep alone:)
By youless
@youless (112670)
Guangzhou, China
August 7, 2008 8:05am CST
I was so surprised that last night my child suddenly told me that he would sleep alone. I don't know why he would suddenly had such an idea. He really grows up
Tonight in order to encourage to sleep by himself, I told him that he did better than his father. As his father still sleeps with mother, and he couldn't sleep alone even if he is a grown up man. My trick works and tonight my child behaved well and he slept by himself again
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
24 Nov 09
Hello youless. It is good that your son sleeps by himself now. Is he five years now? I think that it is good for children to sleep alone when they reach a certain age. He will become more independent this way, which is good to help develop his independence. Happy parenting, youless.
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@youless (112670)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Nov 09
Perhaps you haven't noticed that my this discussion was posted last year. The latest situation is we have to sleep with our child today. This trick doesn't work for him today And I told you in your discussion about whether you will sleep earlier in winter
@SViswan (12051)
• India
24 Nov 09
That's so good. I'm still trying to figure out how to get our three year old to go to his room at night. He refuses to go even though his older brother is there for company. His older brother started sleeping alone in his own room at 18 months...but this one refuses to budge:(
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
8 Aug 08
your kids finally starting to be independent in his little ways. starting with sleeping alone. you'll surely miss those days when you need to be right by his side until he falls to sleep. those days when he can't sleep without you singing his lullaby or reading him some stories.
i am not a mother yet but i learned those ideas from my mom.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
8 Aug 08
Awww, that is a big step for your little guy. And then he did it again. He is really growing up. Good job.
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@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
8 Aug 08
Interesting development in the personality of the child. It is now at this stage the level of " self- that i can" starts growing in the minds of kids. Surely you have done a good thing, by inspiring him. This small small inspirations that we show to the kids at this stage will transform and reflect in this "MAKING OF AN INDIVIDUAL"
Good job, youless.. Take care.
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@cinderella2007 (2662)
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8 Aug 08
Well done into tricking your son into sleeping on his own again!!
Growing up we never slept in our parents bed, we always had our own bed. My brothers would share a room and I would have my own room.
I know some people let their children share the bed with them, even at the age of 4!! I wouldnt allow that as children need to learn to sleep on their own and have their own room. If they wake up then they will have to learn how to go back to sleep again. I know I might sound harsh but sometimes children will still be sharing the parents bed until they are 7!!
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@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
Good day... your son is growing up and getting braver to face his world. That's the first step in his independence at least the very first step and it would take years after for the second step.
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
8 Aug 08
that is good...now you will have some time in which you can be with your husband..
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
How old is your son? Mine is 5 and 3 and still shares the bed with us.. and I also have a 3 month old kid. Imagine that. Five of us sharing in one bed. It's kinda hard for me because I grew up sleeping alone in a very large bed. And to make it worse the kids got their feet scratching hobbit from their dad. For them to fall asleep easily they would scratch their against mine.. 3 of them! the good thing is we have an extra sofa bed.. whenever I want to have a "me" bed I'll just doze off to the sofa bed.. and sometimes i tricked my firstborn to sleep there alone.
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@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Yes, he is growing up. Now maybe you and your husband will have some space in bed,lol...and some alone time. I dont' have any children but we have a couple of dogs who sleep with us. We actually have 4 but one sleeps in her cage and one sleeps in her doggy bed as she is too old now to be getting up and down on the bed.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
that is so so so so cute. it is nice to see when our child is slowly maturing in a childish way. lol. i hope he can do that every night well except when he is not feeling well that would or could bean exeption. your child is a very brave young lad. a round of applause to your baby. clap clap clap
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Hi youless,
Wow..that's cool...great attitude there for your son! SO, he is showing that he is learning to be independent!
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@faln_angel1205 (1192)
• United States
7 Aug 08
That is an awesome trick..i will have to share that with friends if you dont mind. My son never slept in our bed and never wanted to so i was very fortunate. WTG little guy!
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