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By shadowispro
@shadowispro (3)
India
August 7, 2008 1:04pm CST
i am about to propose a girl who i like most in life than any thing.............
but the thig is iam really scared to ..... thinking that she may wont take to me again ..... i dont know wether she think same about b.......................
plz help me wat should i do where should i strt from ...
eagrly w8iting for feed back.....
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6 responses
@dodgeman270 (123)
• United States
7 Aug 08
well she dating you isnt she??? lol. so she has to like you. when i was going to propose to my wife i was so nervous that i couldnt breath. its a big step in your life it really is and its a chance you have to take because if you really truely love her and want to make her your wife then find the perfect place and the perfect time and pop the question and im pretty sure that if you love her she loves you back sooo i would taike the risk if i was you. i hope i gave some good advice and good luck to you ..
dodgeman
@dodgeman270 (123)
• United States
7 Aug 08
oh and just come out and say it dont be afraid cuz i bet shell say yes
@silentcry89 (18)
• United States
8 Aug 08
she probably feels like marrying you to. but go at it slowly dont make it obvious. ask her if she thinks she would be with you in 10 years and if she would want to. ask her her views on having a family. do this over a nice dinner. dont propose yet. then again at a nice dinner ask her some more questions but you can make its seem like a game write the question on some flash cars and shuffle em up and just pull them out like just random questions for the game. but have a lot of different dating questions in it. then on another date ( if you get answers you like ) play the game again but this time you will be cheating and have the proposal question where you can get to it in like 5 cards. this will shock her and will make it fun and calming for her. i so wish i was i guy so i can propose
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Are you about to propose marriage or a date? I can not be sure of what to tell you until you specify but one tip I will give you is just be yourself and if you are to propose marriage and look into her eyes and tell her what you feel in your heart. I hope that you have a very wonderful day and good luck! Please specify though as I would love to give you more advice!
@Dragonofgold (509)
• Canada
7 Aug 08
well, I would think that you would be sure if someone you wanted to spend the rest of your life with reciprocated. (that means feels the same and returns your feelings). Maybe you should communicate with her about your relationship and what she sees for your future.
or
you could take a chance and pop the question anyway. The worst she can do is say no.
@angusthethird (515)
• United States
7 Aug 08
How long have you known this girl?
If you are asking a message board what you should or shouldn't do about your feelings for a woman, I would say that the answer is do nothing at all. See the relationship for what it is: A good friendship.
Watch her vibes. Has she given you reason to believe she's interested? Has she specifically told you she's interested? If you don't know, then chances are she sees you only as a friend.
Don't tell her anything, and continue to watch the relationship unfold. Don't act overanxious,you will scare her away. Observe her, observe the situation. Do not do anything to try to manipulate her feelings.
And the first sign that she likes someone else more than you--if you can't handle being"just her friend"--leave her alone altogether. "She who is convinced against her will is of the same opinion still, "as the old proverb goes. Respect her privacy, her right to choose who she wants to be with. If you don't see her busting down doors to get to you, like a person going to put out a fire, then chances are you already know where you stand.
Are you willing to accept the relationship on its own terms? That's where being a real man comes in.
@christafiri (1)
• Belize
7 Aug 08
hey man never wait the last moment to make a first impression and If things don't work out she isn't the right one for you just be sure its love and not a lustful desire