Please help me to decide

Is he a sociopath or a psychopath. First establish that. What do you know about his past especially his past relationships? What does the ex have to offer that you cannot? What was the reason that he dumped you? Do you think that a relationship with this man will be long and lasting? Is he worth all your tears? Wasn't he man enough to face you? Why by phone? Was he pressured by the ex to take her back and what hold does she have on him? The relationship with the ex will not last very long at all and they will experience the same problems that made them to break up in the first place. It will just be on a much higher degree. There are specks already - i promise you. It is just human that you will struggle to get over him - take your time. Yes call the man and find out from him why he dumped you. I can promise you that he will not have a definite answer as he do not know himself. He is thinking of you and yes, he still loves you. Please do not rush into another relationship because you are hurt. Take your time. Let him understand that you still love him and that he is welcome back into your life. I can suggest very extreme measures to get him back and to have revenge on his ex. By the way I am male.

I am so sorry to hear this, but I think you should just let this go. You found out how he is before you got in over your head, so just count your blessings and let well enough alone. It will take time for your heart to get over him, so try to be surrounded by friends and family until the hurt fades away. Go out to dinner or go to the movies with them, it will help to keep your mind occupied.

hmm if someone has "dumped you" prolly he knows for sure he doesnt need you anymore .Its important that you get practical let bygones be bygones and move on wiht your life:)

Oh honey, I am so sorry to hear this. I know you are hurting bad. But, in my opinion, since you asked everyone, I think you should let it go. He doesn't show a strong character the way he has treated you. Try to go on. Keep as busy as you can.

I think this man dont really loves you. it's better that you moved on. You deserves a much better man that this type!! stop pining for this jerk! hope you could stay away and avoid him. All my best to you!

I think that although you don't realize it you are lucky to find out what this guy is like. Obviously he is fickle . I was in the same type situation and was very hurt . It is now three or four months ago and I feel better and realize I was actually lucky to get out of that before I got hurt even worse than I did