How much you love me?

@pinduko (192)
Philippines
August 8, 2008 1:07am CST
Many of us don't know how we express our love to someone even how to tell it.. there are times we want to show but we are very hesitant to tell or show it. I'm not so very close to my parents since I was a kid. Until now, I don't know how to express how much I love them... About you how do you express your love to your love ones or family? How you let them fell how much to love them?..
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5 responses
IInsanity
@IInsanity (290)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 08
actually, i'm not really expressive with my emotions. my family is not really fond of expressing our love. i don't really know why. it's just how we roll. i wished things were different.
pinduko
@pinduko (192)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
it could be since still yound you haven't saw it within family..or there are more reasons more than that...some maintain for being cold but that really cold, where they want see them more respectful and ahead of others..
braver1987
@braver1987 (239)
• Italy
8 Aug 08
sometimmes u don't need words to tell how much u care about people..
pinduko
@pinduko (192)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
or will say, actions more than any words..through gestures, they way move,or response to what the need and feel about it..
magojordan
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
Honestly I'm not the type of person who expresses his feelings well. SO in my case I just try to be a good son for them. In that way I could show how much I love them Also I try not to get myself into trouble so that they won't worry for me because i don't like them worrying so much for me.
pinduko
@pinduko (192)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
same here..i do my best for them make happy..and hoping they will be proud to me..Even I cant show tru' hug or kisses i know the way i care for them, doing what they wanted is one how to do it..keep it up dude..
yrayne
@yrayne (76)
•
8 Aug 08
..I was born in a family who is not oriented on showing or saying how you love each other.. but somehow, all of us show affection in different ways like taking care when somebody is ill, giving respect, and appreciating when someone does good or excellent things.. we don't need to hear the word "i love you" in order to know that we are loved.. we just feel it inside..
pinduko
@pinduko (192)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
action speaks louder than words...but sometimes the wonderful words that you want to hear is that your name with the word " i love you" I been same like you before but one of my love ones passed away..a big regret for me why i dont even mentioned those words when he was alive..now, even i would ell those words..he cant hear anymore..I know he can hear but i don't know if he will be happy or not..
iyah10
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
8 Aug 08
I am not a kind of person who is so expressive in the way I felt for them because I just let them felt by my way of taking good care of them and managed the things that they need in everyday life for that reason I will cry when my Mother told me that she loved me and I have to take good care especially when the time that I have to go back to Kuwait for my own family......
pinduko
@pinduko (192)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
they said mother know'a best and you doing it too..many family don't have what we call open mindedness, the way of freely tellign everything..and this can be the family background..was it brother-sister way or waht we called militaristics way..but i know they fell how much you love them, that's the important..keep it up..