Would you forgive your partner (girlfriend,boyfriend,wife,husband) if they cheat
By sharie16
@sharie16 (2212)
Philippines
11 responses
@abhaijith (2963)
• India
9 Aug 08
mm,I don't know ,how will i react. I can't even think about it.May be i can forgive.
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
Hi sharie17, Well, case to case basis. I can forgive him but I can't forget easily. No ones perfect, but "time will heal". If my boyfriend will cheat on me, I will let him explain everything, like why did he did that? I don't like this to happen when were already married because this is more painful when we have already children, I don't want that my children will suffer under any circumstances. If I can still save the relationship of course I will forgive him. And If this happens again and again I think I have do some thing.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes, if you already caught him while you are still on boyfriend-girlfriend relationship it might as well happen when you were married, but surely ask him an explanation for that. you can never be assured that he will change unless given a second chance, but if it is not worth it, then he don't deserve it..better leave him, he can never be a good partner to you...as the other said on the above post, ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER...
@Linda4ualways (2282)
• United States
8 Aug 08
For the most part, woman genuinely try to forgive their man for cheating on them and try to work things out. I have forgiven and the trust is definitely not the same anymore and it's such a terrible feeling not trusting the one you're with. Now for men, it's quite different. It's as if their world has come to an abrupt end when they find out that they have been cheated on. They handle it worse than us women do.
Take care and God Bless!
@rkrish (3003)
• India
8 Aug 08
Forgive and Forget are the basics of relationships and the relationships you have mentioned are those whom we live for !!!!
Without them there is no life for us, so not forgiving or rembering the things will create problem for us and for all !!!
But definetely, i will have a BIGGG discussion and express my bad experience and feelings to make her understand !!! So not to repeat in future.
Finally express you love and have hands off !!!
Enjoy living and relationship !!!
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
i agree, we should be vocal to our partner how we've been hurt so bad to let him/her know what and how we feel, it might give him/her the idea that she/he he will not do the same again...otherwise, he dont deserve the love and trust we give him the second time around... Thanks for posting!