Self Esteem
By pcw3004
@pcw3004 (167)
Canada
November 4, 2006 4:57pm CST
Does anyone know where I can buy some, lol, I know. Seems silly being 32 on Monday with out any. Here is my problem, my husband/common law boyfriend goes to the bar practicly every weekend, he says he is going to blow off steam, stresses from the week, but me being me I think he is looking for someone else. I am obese, and this makes me feel even worse, I have tried to talk to him, but he doesn't think he is doing anything wrong. It's not that I don't trust him, but there are lots and lots of women who he would be better suited for (looks wise anyway). Anyway, I just needed to vent I think. Thanks for listening everyone:(
2 responses
@spirit1949 (373)
•
4 Nov 06
Do not put yourself down pcw, you are who you are and if people don't like that tell them take a long walk off a short peer. If your partner says he's just going to the pub to blow off steam, ask him if its OK for you to join him. Do you go down to the pub to blow your stresses off ? If your partner can't take you with him, well its about time he washed is own shirts etc, makes is own meals, and pay the bills. I'm a man so don't take his bull.
@adonica (439)
• United States
4 Nov 06
Awww here's a big hug for you. Just because your overweight doesn't mean your not beautiful inside and out. You need to make a list of all the good qualities about yourself.. Could you possibly do something like get your hair done or get a facial. Something that you enjoy and makes you feel good. I think that your husband/common law boyfriend going to the bar every weekend is the key here. Have you tried talking to him and telling him how you feel? Could you possibly go together or perhaps find another stress outlet that you both could do together?
@pcw3004 (167)
• Canada
4 Nov 06
Well, we tried going out together, but I get too jealous I guess, one time he actually looked around me to check out another girl, I know this sounds sooooo silly; we have been together for 13 years and I don't know, I don't feel too loved lately. Thanks for the hug :|
