HE doesnt have TIME for ME.. HELP!!!

@xtiner (45)
Philippines
August 8, 2008 1:30pm CST
my boyfriend doesn't have time for me.... he is too busy with his studies and thesis.... WHAT SHOULD I DO??? i really really miss him...
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@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
8 Aug 08
Why don't you set up a "study date"? Ask him if he needs anything while studying & if not, ask him if he minds if you stick around while he's studying... You guys don't necessarily have to talk or anything, just being together while he's studying & you're reading or something... Just be together in the same room... Relationship is very important, also, his is important as well... Give him a little room but at the same time, just be together...
@xtiner (45)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
i tried that... but sadly it didn't work.. we have a different course, he is a nursing student and i'm in engineering....
• United States
8 Aug 08
I think you should talk to him... Communication is the key to a great relationship.. He probalby just to busy to hang out i think you should tell him that you miss him and you really need some one on one time with him to talk somethings over... I think that hes not trying to avoid you think that he is just to busy to have some one on one time with you.. I bet after he done with his studies i bet you guys will get back to where you guys were.. Seeing each other everyday and stuff like that.. Just be patient..
@xtiner (45)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
I hope so.. but sometimes i had this feeling of giving up, i don't want to compete with his studies...
• United States
8 Aug 08
Why don't you talk to him? Communication goes a long way. Maybe you can be a little understanding as well since he is doing something really important. I know that doing a thesis can be time consuming. You guys should just meet in the middle. It is give and take.
@xtiner (45)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
thanks for the advice.. we have a schedule once a week, to eat or have a date and talk... huhuhuhuhu... once a week is not enough for me!!! we had talked about this a lot of times before...