how often do you argue?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
August 8, 2008 1:50pm CST
alright as we all know that in any relationship theres going to be fights and arguments, i mean that is almost in every relationship, and i am not trying to be nosy or anything like that but i was just wondering what seems normal, i mean do you argue or fight every week or is it something that doesn't happen that often, because me and my other...we argue and bicker every few days, and i mean its not bad fights or even fights for that matter we just argue and thats like us, thats how its been since day one, there has been a few times i'll admit that it has gotten bad but for the most part we are through with it and we make up by the end of the day if not sooner...like i said thats just been us, but i was just wondering if we argue more than most of you all...so please don't be afraid to talk about it...thanks for taking the time to read my discussion and hopefully answering my question, i hope that you all have a really great day!
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@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
9 Aug 08
My boyfriend and I don't really fight, I am the one who tends to whine, but that lasts for like two seconds, because he doesn't complain at all. With my past boyfriends they would feed the fire, but with him he just always remains calm and more so comforts and talks to me when I might be upset about something in my life. I love that he has NEVER gotten upset about anything, it's just unreal, I don't know how he keeps so composed. Because I know that he won't complain or anything, I feel less inclined to complain about things, so he does me better and influences me to not get worked up about the dumbest things, which what most fights in just about every relationship form from haha. We have never had a fight to this day, it has been a year and two months now 
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@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
8 Aug 08
My husband and i really don't argue to much w ehave disagrements all the time but we really don't fight to often.. I am a shouter and my husband is a the type that isn't a shouter.. So we balance each other out... I really like that about my husband that is not a shouter... I like that he walks away when things start to get loud...
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
11 Nov 08
My husband and I used to fight continously and now we are not together anymore. We
still see each other occasionally, he comes to visit me in Calgary and he lives in
Winnipeg.
I left him because of all the fighting. I got to the point I couldn't handle all the
drama anymore. It was affecting my health.
Now I live with my adult daughter and there is no more arguing. And I love it.
I can never go back to the constant arguing. But I think we were arguing a lot more than
you and your hubby are. I guess a little arguement now and then is okay. But don't
let it get out of hand.
Alrighty then, talk to you later.
Your friend, Chris 
@misty99 (736)
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9 Aug 08
Hi jhl....with me and hubby, i would say about twice to four times a month.That's arguments right?We use to fight and argue more often before.I must admit i kept in whining about his attitude.But now i'm used to his attitude and let it pass than argue with him and spoil my whole day and not talk to him.
.I think disagreements spice up a relationship.As long as you meet at one point and talk it over..i think it's natural.
.I think disagreements spice up a relationship.As long as you meet at one point and talk it over..i think it's natural.
@oaguilar18 (5)
• Costa Rica
8 Aug 08
I can only tell you that the worst fights for a relationship are the frequent one's, because they are usually about nothing important and usually part of a vicious circle you get use to, and the will destroy what you have. Occasional fights for things that do matter, even if they are big, can let you grow if you choose to by analyzing and looking for an answer to the cause of the fight. But everyday or very frequent fights can only hurt all the people involve, and they are usually not the product of real problems, but of bad habits, and as humans, we tend to repeat the same conducts over and over again, like a vice, until we make a stop and analyze the problem. My thoughts. Hope they help.
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