Ex showed up,uh!!!..now what?

Nice hypothetical question haha! I am not quite sure how I would react, I would definitely show how confused I would be. I would not be angry or anything, I would be polite, but I would not accommodate him with things since it is rude to just show up out of no where, when he broke up with me haha. I have a boyfriend, and he knows that, so he would not be there to pursue me for sure. We would chat a little maybe and then he would go home, because I am not interested in really being close to him at all. It would be a very awkward visit I can tell you that! haha.

My exes would have to take an awful long trip to drop in on me like that, lol. Anyhow, it depends on who how the relationship ended I would say. Either I would open the door and we would have a nice chat or I would pretend I'm not home, lol. I have one ex-boyfriend who turned into a stalker after I dumped him. It was kind of creepy. If he would turn up here I would call the cops;)

It depends on his intention. If he just paid a visit it will be okay for me. Just for the sake of old times. But if he is there to start ruining my family, then i will not let him come back again.

It depends on who exes are. If the ex that I hate most, I will not answer. If an ex that I am friend with, I would say hi and busy this moment. If a ex who broke my heart, I wouldn't able to answer the door because i would be afraid to get hurt again.

hmmm... I'd won't do anything... so what if he shows up? I'll make him see how satisfied with my own life right now... and I'm sure eventually he'll find lout how wrong he was to give someone as precious as me away... I'm sure I'll get a heck of a laugh out of it...

Hug! Say it is nice to see you, go out to dinner and go home!

I'd laugh and shut the door in his face. He doesn't deserve my time or even the breath for me to say hello.

Seeing how we now live 1600 miles apart...I have to wonder what he was doing there? And what was so important that he had to travel all that way to see me for. Since a long distance call would be cheaper. And we do talk on the phone from time to time, maybe once or twice a month. We are now friends, maybe living that far apart has something to do with that? lol

i'll kick his as* and say have a nice day!

Wow what timing this happened to me this morning. I am on my last day of vacation from work, my kids are back in school and I was kicked back in nothing but a t-shirt and underwear, messing around on the computer, enjoying having the house all to myself. Then there was a knock on the door. In my house no one ever knocks but the police, (I have a neighbor that likes to call the police on my daughter with downs, but she was in school) so I got kind of freaked. When I opened the front door, there stood my ex boyfriend, who I might add I am still very very much in love with. I stood there just staring at him, I couldn't think, I couldn't breath, and I couldn't talk. He was the last person I expected to see standing there since he lives 175 miles away. He said he was on his way to pick someone up in Memphis so he stopped by to say hi. Not sure how my house was on his way to Memphis though. He definately took the long way around to get there. We talked for about 20 minutes and they (he was traveling with a friend) were on their way. It took hours for my heart to beat normal again.

I'd first want to know how he knew where I lived and why he was at my house? LOL I would wonder why whatever he needed could not be discussed by phone and I would remind him that he should know that I despise uninvited surprise visits at my home, and tell him that nothing has changed about that.LOL

uhm?? i'l offer him to enter in our house... :)