a woman is another womans enemy

hi sanjana...i'm not here to prove you wrong. if that is the way it is in your life then it is true in your life. everyone's life is different. i have had many men that have made my life miserable. some were managers that were bad. one is a relative. then i had woman co-workers and managers that made me miserable. so for me it's a toss up. both genders have made me miserable and there are some in each gender that have been a great help. that's in my life.

One, Where did you get your stats? Link/URL? Two, I doubt its been really studied but 90 % seems awfully high and in my experience I have never seen anything to lead me to believe its that high. I used to write extensively on women in the workforce and the problems they experience which is not to say I am an expert. lol I never saw any stats backing what you say. In fact the trend is in women mentoring other women to help them break through the glass ceiling and what is referred to as the "old boys network".

A woman is a woman's worst enemy.This is what I recall from bitter experiences.We women condemn men for so many acts of their's but what right do we have to do it?Take the case of a family,Who gives a girl more freedom its the father.When a girl marries and steps into a new family the achievements that a daughter-in-law does is noticed by the father-in-law and brothers-in law but the women in the family make sure its unnoticed and they also try to criticize.Does a girl have a true and honest girl for a friend, very rarely.When you are desperate you will pour out your heart to your friend and feel relieved.No sooner than said what you wanted to hide from public will be circulating in the form of gossip.Is this true friendship?I think in an age where women are excelling men in so many fields the other side of a woman too should change for the betterment.

My M-I-L, I like her but she has told me I was wrong in her own way - nursing - although its the healthiest thing for your child, all his proteins, carbs, fats, vitamins and minerals all day on our visit she was telling me, "he must be hungry, he must be thirsty, he won't grow up big and strong". Her kids grew up on snacks and canned food. And insisted he should have rice milk but he threw it up each time. She didn't believe me etc. I was once given an explanation by my first boyfriend (perfect in every way but he had like a split personality because sometimes he was very mean in words) and his friend of why girls don't like me. They said it was because I was too nice. They thought it was either fake or it was real, making me a threat as far as guys. Guys like the wild girls at first but settle down with the nice girls. Not sure if its true but....

Oh, Sanjana, I'm so sorry that your experience has taught you this. Women are only the enemy if there's a competition going on that makes them envious. My mother-in-law and I are friends, and we get along beautifully, but my husband makes sure we're not together too much, which prevents a lot of disagreements. I have 6 bosses, or supervisors. Three are male and three are female. The entire staff hates two of the men and one of the women, and the others are great. It has to do with their attitudes toward us, I think. Some just act as if we're dirt beneath their nils, but the rest of them are people we can discuss things with - a very important part of management. As for coworkers, we really get along well. The few exceptions just don't stay there! I hope you'll come to see that women can be your dearest friends!

yes,you are right,i have a lot of priends at the same site .and the womans will full of hostility to each other,and don't found friendly to each other.i don't know why lead to this matter.just by fight for the love for the mans i think.

I don't know what the statistics are. Sometimes women can be ruthless and competitive, but, like everything else, I think it all depends on the people and the situation.

haha, meybe you are right,it always difficult to deal with the difference between them,and i always find that some girls are gentlewoman when they are with a boy,but when they stay with girls they will be barbarous.