How would u react...?
By youngthugsta
@youngthugsta (40)
India
August 9, 2008 11:33am CST
If ur girl whome u love alot had a friend who always flirts with other girls what would u do? My girl is doin her cabin crew course frm kingfisher n has a friend dere who always flirts with other girls... I've told her many times to stay far frm him but she tells me hes just a good friend. I trust my love but not others. Frankly speaking i'm very posessive n my blood boils whenever she talks about him.
What should i do?
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8 responses
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
9 Aug 08
If you trusted her you wouldn't tell her to stay far from him.. That makes you kinda of controlling.. You shouldn't be that way if you trusted the girl obviously you don't trust he like you should??? Has she ever done anything to make you not trust her is the question???? I don't think that you should have anything to worry aobut if you trust her...
@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
9 Aug 08
everyone is possessive buddy, but real love is not restricting someone whom we like, it is all about giving them freedom and make them faithful to us, by reciprocating to them
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
It's totally understandable. Your girl will most likely not break your trust but the man can do something unexpected. Just keep on trusting your girl and respect her space but protect her. I'm quite possessive as well and I really don't appreciate other guys flirting with her. It's fine to be friends. I don't have anything against it. It's just me, but if she starts to give more attention to that guy, you'd have to take control and just be honest with your feelings.
I just wish you all the best in your relationship. Always follow your heart at the same time, listening to what your mind says. Have them work together for you and you'll do fine.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
10 Aug 08
i know its hard to trust people out there and girls misunderstnd that you are distrusting them. Its for your girl to understand how you feel she must keep herself in your condition that what if , you worked in some place and girls flirted with you and she feels bad and then, you say , We are just good friends, i dont understand what good friends and best friends mean but yeah
this surely makes one feel that you , being their lover have no value when their so called GOOD Friends come on the line!!!
Understand it what else can you do
@sassyangelee (340)
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
It is just normal to get jealous. It's part of being in love. But always control yourself and dont let it consume you. Trust her with your love. Shower her with your kisses. Show her what love is. I tell you my friend, all she will talk about to this guy is you! ;)
@adi_scars (33)
• India
9 Aug 08
well everyone is a little possesive. but relly if you trust your friend , you must gove her space and trust her. why do you have to think of others. chill mann.
@lonelyfloyd (226)
• India
9 Aug 08
well,that guy may just be friendly and a buddy to your girl .... and you said he flirts with other girls too ... i dont think there is any problem . See man , da only thing u can do is to be the best boyfriend to her , rest is all upto destiny . NOthing is constant in life .