Which one (family, boyfriends/girlfriends, friends) is more important ?

August 9, 2008 12:06pm CST
i think everybody have different idea about this. For me i think when i small i think family is more important because parent always fetch me go to school , send me go to tuition, and give me what i want.When grow up, i think friends is very important because we always play with each other, ask for help and doing activity together. Now i 22 years old i think girlfriend is more important because girlfriend will always stay beside and even support me. What about you?
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@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
10 Aug 08
It is still my Family that would be in the first place before my friends and the rest of other things would follow......
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9 Aug 08
Hi sabahking, I think parents are more important for as long as they live because thy will always be there for no matter how old your get but girlfriend won't always be there for you because they can leave you swhen they want to and go with some body else but parents will never leave your till they die. Tamara
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@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
9 Aug 08
I don't think any one is more important than another. Family is not neccessarily to just pay for things for you and give you what you want. Family is about belonging to these people and they to you, they will always give you a place to run to when the world seems to be at odds with you. And when you are there you enjoy that feeling of belonging with these people because these are your people. Your friends in my opinion are the family that you get to choose and who stand beside you because of the bonds that you have built together. Friends may drift apart or go to another college and not be around for periods of time but time and distance will not sever the bond, nor will fighting and not hanging out anymore. All the people you love have their own important place within your psyche and within your heart.
@karjyo (830)
• India
9 Aug 08
From childhood till now, i have always felt that my family is the most important. Everything and everybody is secondary.
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• United States
9 Aug 08
My family. Always. They come first. Friends come second,and lover's come third or don't come at all. :)
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@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
Family! specially my kids. then my mom and sisters. then friends. I value most the kids. I always based my decisions on what is good for them.
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
Of course, my family is more important to me because I grew up together with them.. I am not who I am right now if not because of them.. They took care of me for many years and even up to now.. Same as you, my boyfriend is my second priority.. I love him so much and he is also important to me.. I would be very happy if I have both of them.. I can't choose between my family and my boyfriend because I know that my boyfriend is already part of my family..
20 Aug 08
for me definetly family is most important.. coz if you loose a girlfriend you will get thousand others but if you loose your mother then you will not get one more mother.
@acc2003 (11)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I think that your relationship with your mate and also your children are the most important because you have to interact with them on a daily basis. If the home is happy then you can be happy with family and friends as well!