How important is controlling ?

hello to you! well, it is very important to have self control on some things in the family that need to assessed initially. as intense as the emotions may burst out, one needs not to be impulsive as to the fact or instance that needs to be discussed first and foremost. if one takes no control and becomes reactive, prejudices may come around and therefore will only worsen the familial situation, eventually putting into an unresolved crisis. whereas, if one is calm, then everything will follow smoothly. conflicts will thereby get solved in a peaceful manner. that's all i can say! have a nice day!