How you feel about rude people?

@teka44 (3420)
Brazil
August 9, 2008 6:06pm CST
Today I was in the market and I was looking for something, I found it and I was checking the price when a woman shove me to see the same thing. I said "you could say excuse me" and the woman look at me and go away without say nothing. It driven me crazy. Why some persons need to be so nasty and rude? Perhaps her tongue will fall if she say excuse me?How you feel about those things? Do you begin a strife or what?
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@metalhalo (599)
• United States
10 Aug 08
I've worked in retail...you wouldn't believe some people and their rudeness abilities. They're everywhere. For me just simply biting my tongue and realizing that they must lead a miserable life in order going around like that all day. And of course the ever lovely saying "You catch more bees with honey."
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@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi metalhalo, You are hight. Thanks for your response.
• United States
10 Aug 08
I definitely understand where you are coming from. Unfortunately, there are many rude people out their in the world, and there is really nothing we can do about it. Its other people's personalities, and we just have to try to not let it get to us so badly. It is hard but you just have to try. Rude people like that always get something coming to them eventually.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi, you are right. Thanks for your comment. Have a nice day.
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@oneidmnster (1384)
• United States
10 Aug 08
Everyone is saying they hate rude people.Yet,I work in retail and I'm constantly having to help someone while they are talking on their cell phone.If you want my full attention,give me yours.The same thing goes with cell phones and driving.Not only is it dangerous,it's just plain rude.No one likes to get cut off or get behind some idiot driving 10 miles below the speed limit while they're talking on the phone. The problem is people aren't taught common courtesy anymore.The bigger problem is so-called adults aren't teaching their children courtesy.
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@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi oneidmnster, I agree with you completely. Nowadays none have courtesy and doesn't teaching it for children so the problem will grow more and more. It is sad. Thank you for your response.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
10 Aug 08
i'm with you. i dislike rude people very much. it is so unsessaryfor people to act like that.i'm glad u said something to her. i would have to.
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@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi antiquelady. I hate this and when it happen my blood goes up to my head and I need to say something. I know that those people probably grow up in a stable without education but it bother me so much. It is too hard to say "excuse me please?". Thanks for your reply my friend.
@Valenas (1507)
• United States
10 Aug 08
Rude people make me angry, only because most of the time their behavior is uncalled for. I hate when people use the excuse, "I've had a bad day" to cover for their actions, because it's not an excuse. I was having a bad day two days ago, and I saw a teacher that I clashed with often at my school, and I was still able to put on a smile and wave, and talk to her when she asked how I was doing.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi valenas. Yes, is none fault if someone has a bad day. Thanks for your comment. Have a good day.
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
20 Aug 08
Hi teka, I have no time for rude people! All rude people do is make other people feel bad and why would you want to be around people like that? That woman needs to learn some manners. I would just ignore it, but I would also be a little upset by it as well. Anyway, she is the one with the attitude probelem, not me!
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
10 Aug 08
That happens a lot around here too. I always look at my husband and ask him if I have suddenly become invisible because so many people seem to act as though I am or I say "excuse you". I have never had anyone say anything back to me. I just feel everyone seems to think the world owes them something and it would hurt their pride to be nice to someone else.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
AH AH you are right. I think that animals are more nice than those people. Thank you for your reply in my post.
@mlhuff12 (797)
• United States
10 Aug 08
Of course I don't really care for rude people at all. I guess my parents did a really good job with me and teaching good manners. I have maybe been too sheltered in my life and not having to be around such people. That when I see rude people I am astonished and amazed at some people. How so many people can be so different than me in this way. It makes me wonder what had happened or didn't happen in their life that had made them how they are.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi mlhuff, thank you for your response.
• Pakistan
10 Aug 08
calm down dear. it often happens people who have the lack of morality lessons its ok you are better than her in this matter i think, have a nice day
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hello my dear iftikharsumn!!! nice to meet you again. Thank you for your response. Have a nice day. PS. Don't desappear boy!
• Pakistan
11 Aug 08
I am always for my friends and those who love me are most important for me no matter what is their age, their language, religion etc. You can't imagine my happiness due to your those words "don't disappear boy" Now i will Really take care of it. infect i was busy in an other money making method and was searching new ways. thats why could not spare time for my myloter friends. now i will try to my best at least Response your Discussion With Regards, Iftikhar Ahmad
@vimaal (3361)
• India
10 Aug 08
hi teka, how are you my dear friend, I believe with you pa. I don't like rude people in this world. Me too also saw this kind of same experiance. take care have a nice day.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi vimaal, thank you for your response. have a nice day too.
@bmorehouse1 (1028)
• United States
10 Aug 08
I hate rude people! They think they own the world or something. I don't think the words "excuse me" or "I'm sorry" is in their vocabulary. There is no excuse for a person to be rude. The world would certainly be a better place if people would stop and think before they act. I try not to let rude people get to me, but sometimes they do make me mad! Best wishes!
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi bmorehouse thank you for your response.
@wallie (405)
• Sweden
10 Aug 08
Only had one bad encounter and that was from a person that really should know better. I was sending two big envelopes at a local store and the person taking my order was putting on stamps than all of a sudden he became extremely rude and yelled, DO YOU WANT TO WATCH WHILE I PUT THE ENVELOPES IN A BAG !! and I said.. No, I just want my recite. Think it's pretty common to give recite without having to ask for it at least that is how it works here and at that store I usually get it after they put on stamps because their printer used for recites takes awhile before printing. Anyhow he looked like a complete retard to everyone there, didn't have to do anything for revenge could tell he felt like a moron :)
@wallie (405)
• Sweden
10 Aug 08
In general I would do just like that time I never bother getting into a fight about something but than again it hasn't happened to me more than ones so can't say for sure depends on how rude it is I guess.
@LOULOU323 (213)
10 Aug 08
Some folk just make you sick,they want all others to be really polite to them but they dont want to give anything back.Well to my way of thinking there is no excuse for rudeness,so if she was rude then she ought to have apologised to you.But thats life and there are a whole heap of people out there,just rude as the days are long
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi loulou, thanks for your reply.
• India
10 Aug 08
You just have no choice but to accept people as they are . Feel compassion for them , because they may not have been brought up that well . It is also possible that they are facing some problem or are in hurry . Being considerate and laughing about it is the best way to go about it . Also, if possible you could tell that person but that is not advisable in all situations.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi lonelyfloyd, thanks for your response in my post.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
10 Aug 08
there are lots of inconsiderate people around the world. sometimes, there are those who will step on your feet in crowded places and won't even apologize at all. there are those who will look you from head to toe as if you're a dirty person and without any reason at all. whatever happens, just stay your cool. even if these people do so many unreasonable things to you, don't let them bring your mood down.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Thank for your response maryannemax.
@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I hate rude people as well. I went shopping today and I saw a grown woman yelling at a store clerk because the thing she wanted shipped to her would take 6-8 weeks, and she was yelling that it shouldn't take that long and why can't the clerk do anything blah blah blah. I just rolled my eyes...some people just never grow up, and some people never think of how they're making other people feel.
@SHUGA81 (220)
• United States
10 Aug 08
I totally know what you mean. I don't understand why people have to be so rude. I run into people like that everyday because I work retail. And I tell you, it takes a lot of control to not stoop to their level and really get them to be nice and courteous.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi shuga, it must be hard working on retail, you need to be polite even if someone is rude. Thank you for your response.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
10 Aug 08
I detest these people - they are not only rude, they are inconsiderate. And yup, they come complete with the glare, like as if looks could kill! Usually, I'd just stand in place and ignore them totally (absolutely refuse to budge one cm); or if I'm in a really nasty mood, I could go further and ask about their education or family upbringing!
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
LOL you are well doing lazeebee. Sometimes those people need to hear something. Thanks for your response.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
10 Aug 08
I felt so sorry for them in why do they have to be Rude with someone because for me they were used to be in the attitude in which they have a lot of insecurities in life......
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
10 Aug 08
Hi iyah, thank you for your response my friend.
• Canada
10 Aug 08
i just hate them, they act like they are deaf and then ignores u. i wished they were never born (u know what i mean). i hate to even see there faces. they should be nice to people.