What is the difference between love based on needs and true love?
By EngrJTU
@bookworms (351)
Pasig, Philippines
August 9, 2008 11:15pm CST
So some people believe that they love another person. But if you look closely they stay with this other person as this person fulfills some needs or makes them feel well. This has in my view not so much to do with love but more with selfishness.
What is in your view the difference between so called love based on fulfillment of some needs and so called "true love".
4 responses
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
for me if you really love somebody it doesnt necessarily mean you have to do it in bed. you its really love no matter what you will still love her. most of the guys really depend on bed. if you are lack on it the guy will have another one. which is so unfair. what if it turns the other way around. will you guys like that your gf or wife will look for another guy?
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
10 Aug 08
Dear friend,
Love based on needs lasts until the needs are got and love based of true love lasts forever. Hence I feel if needs based love may even hurt one who is sincere to love and this hurt would be a break of love as the need is over. On other side I hope both would be sincere or the one who is sincere will be with love for every ups and downs.
@moinuddin14 (652)
• India
10 Aug 08
I guess one in a hundred will be a true love.These days love has become a part of every ones life.I can see hardly a girl walking single these days where in the past days i used to find a couple walking on the roads hardly.I can see many lovers in the shopping malls,theaters and in places like public parks.I hardly see lovers at churches and temples which is pretty clear that love is based on the need and true love does exist but can't be seen by naked eye.Cheers MOIN.
