criticisms
By sweetie1026
@sweetie1026 (1718)
Philippines
August 10, 2008 12:36am CST
Hi, my friends here on mylot. This is kind of awkward for me but i just want to ask or know your opinions about some friends here that openly criticise other friends. Be it on the grammar used or on how to tag their discussion. Maybe they are just being helpful but, i think and i know many will agree that there are better ways to say it nicely. I've seen some comments that are kind of rude a little. But if it's ok then, i've got no problem about it. I just had to ask. No offense meant to anyone.
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7 responses
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
Hello Sweetie. How are you ? Yes, myLot community is growing, and there are members from different countries and different cultures. Some members might have the language problem. Ofcourse critisizing fellow-members is definitely not pleasant at all. Personally, I would not critisize fellow mylotters. This is a place to meet friends and uphold the value of friendship.
Best wishes to you !
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
Yes, i agree with you. I think people join mylot to make friends and hopefully keep and value the friendship that developed thru discussions in here. The interaction is what is making mylot enjoyable and making the extra money is just on the side.Thank you and i wish you the same.
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
By the way i am doing fine, thank you. I hope you are too!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
Well I believe we have no license to criticize anyone here. We can exchange opinion and discuss so many useful and beautiful things rather than criticizing down to personal level. We need not hurt each others feeling by criticizing the grammar or for whatever reason. If a poster did this then he or she is destroying the environment of mylot community.
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
That is true, mylot's environment is truly friendly and helpful in so many ways.Thanks, nice day to you!
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
11 Aug 08
i think people should give "advice/opinions" to some one via private message.. it can sound insulting if you do it in the discussion
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
yes, that is what i think. actually, i have never been criticized on here but i have seen posts that are criticizing fellow mylotters. i would accept any provided it is given to me in a very nice and polite way.
@medicguy (307)
• Pakistan
11 Aug 08
Good constructive criticisms is always welcomed by me. But, at the same time, I have to agree you that personal attacks disguised as criticisms is always very rude and disgusting nonetheless. I feel such people have nothing better to do with their time and they just keep judging others prior to looking at their flaws first. Unfortunately, there are people like these everywhere and one cannot hide from them. SO a better option is to face them with dignity and have patience, because what I have found from my own experience is that such individuals are usually weak inside overflowing with imperfections. Have a nice day!
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
You are right about that.So far, i have not encountered anyone like that and i sure hope that i won't. Nice day to you too!
@mrpsychotic (253)
• United States
10 Aug 08
I think that criticism definitely has it's place on mylot.
It helps to make sure that people are posting legitimate information.
I also think that sometimes people are to hard on things like grammar which they should just let go.
Thanks for reading and good luck.@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
Yes i agree with you but in a nice way. I sure hope that everything that everyone posts in here is legit.Thanks and good luck to you too.
@ajesh_pullad (2251)
• India
15 Aug 08
Hi friend, criticism is good to some extent. But it should be positive one, but not be negative. Some discussion seemed so rude. It could have been avoided to a large extent. Knowingly i never use rude comments here and normal. If i tempted i leave that.
