"Being apart"
By Bobbz21
@Bobbz21 (155)
New Zealand
August 10, 2008 3:30am CST
Its been nearly 1 year n my partner and I have been living apart, him in the "Big Smoke" (Auckland) and well yes me down in the Waikato Area.....
I have found it hard and also at the same time really a blessing as it seems that We get seem closer every time he visits or I am able to get to where he is. I am hoping that he manages to make his way beside me one day, patient is a virtue.
How many are in the same vote as myself, from all walks of life..
for those who respond to this discussion and all discussions that I have put on mylot thank you for your response...
3 responses
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
11 Aug 08
I've been in a long distance relationship before. No doubt it was very hard, especially with the time difference. i have no idea how i survived that, but i did. drove me nuts at times and made me cry too. but there are many means to keep in touch; telephone, email, IMs, digi cam..etc. i missed him a lot, every single second and wish i could see him or for him to be physically there with me, whenever i was sad or happy. you need to have a solid trust, as you're not able to see what your other half is doing. And you need to have lots of faith, enough to not make you give up on your relationship. but i believe, in the end, love is what that holds you together. if two people really love each other, no matter how far they apart they are, they'll be able to go thru the relationship. love knows no boundaries;).
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
10 Aug 08



@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
10 Aug 08
I have been in a long distance relationship for over 2 years now and let me tell you it is hard. But everytime we do see eachother it is just that more of a special time for us. My fiance works 2 provinces over from where we live on the pipeline but as I see it too keep the lifestlye and to make the money he makes out there is truly a blessing for us. We love and trust eachother so we have no worries on that aspect it just is very hard.
