Decide and marry
By snakequeen
@snakequeen (1299)
India
August 10, 2008 6:36am CST
You are in love with a person for a long time and he/she also reciprocates the love in equal measures! Sometime later you both decide to marry and start a new beginning in life. At that time you suddenly discover that this person is in great debts and which cannot be settled off even with your income for a long time to come! You are now confused whether to marry or not. How will you go about this situation?
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6 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
10 Aug 08
If you love someone truly money would not matter. You can pay them off, it is not as if they are so great that they would never be paid off, you just must first believe that it will not take nearly as much time to pay them off. Things can be done to make money in order to pay these debts off, and if you are in good standing with friends or family members you may be able to pay them off quicker.
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I will still go and marry him even if he has debts to pay..if you truly love a person this will not become a hindrance..you two can help each other and with helping each other you will be able to surpass this crisis..
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
10 Aug 08
See if debts are coming in between you and your girlfriend then it seems the love between the two is not true. Well in the case of debts some additional way of earning needs to be looked into so that you are able to clear them and when two persons are together in a task then anything can be done with good understanding.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Some will probably say that I'm too materialistic, but I prefer to think that I'm practical. When one marries, they take on their spouse's debts. If either of you are not satisfied with the stats quo, I'd suggest cutting the affiliation and looking for a wiser partner. Money problems are one of the most frequent reasons for divorce.
@trisha_nava82 (1379)
• United States
10 Aug 08
I would have to say, if you are so much in love. The fact that the other person is in debt, then it shouldn't matter.
