will you attend your to ex's wedding?
By kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
Philippines
August 10, 2008 10:21pm CST
What if you were invited to your ex's wedding will you attend even if you still love this ex's of yours and you still haven't moved on..do you have the courage to see him/her getting married to someone else? For me i think i can't go to this wedding..it will be like killing myself if i will attend their wedding..and i do not want them to see me crying because i am hurting..
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7 responses
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
i will attend on my ex's wedding, in this i will show that i've already moved on. if i will not attend on his wedding, maybe he will think that i still have feelings for him. i will show him that i'm happy for his new life now..
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
20 Aug 08
I will attend her wedding if i had gotten over her ^_^ If not, i dun think i will have the heart to attend it and see my loved person in other guy's arms and yet i cant do anything about it..
Though the saying states that, love is not about posessing the person, but letting thm go and find their own happiness.. But it's not that easy to do so, and maybe i should say it's hard :(
Unless i'm very sure that i have totally let go of that relationship between me and her, if not i wont go lest that i spoil their wedding too and it will not be nice, especially if i will to get drunk somemore ^_^
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
hi, kaezy..
If I still have feelings for the guy, why would I go to his wedding and subject myself to more pain and heartache? I'd rather not go and be embarrassed when his friends see me...That's too much already!!
Well, if he doesn't love me anymore and he has already found the girl that he would like to marry, then by all means, go ahead and have their day!
I will be able to move on eventually and will find my own man...i wouldn't let a man destroy me and my future, life goes on...
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
There's no use for me attending my ex's wedding specially if my feelings for him is still in my heart. It's just like putting salt in the wound. How can I bear seeing him walking down the aisle with another woman. Wahhhh! that's like a spear stabbing the innermost part of my heart. So for me no need to go, I would rather stay home and plant orchids! Ha!ha!ha!
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
hehehehe.. yeah better gibe attention to your orchids rather than your ex's wedding.
@agihcam (1914)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I will.
I must to show to her that I can live without her. In the first place even though I love her, I can't do anything to maintain our relationship and so we get separated.
If I cannot attend to her wedding, this means that I can't accept the fact that she has a new love, yet again, even though I love her, I can prove to her that I can accept to myself that I lost her.
I do believe that we have our own destiny in life since we gave birth by our parents on this earth and it is depend on us how to direct our self into right path along the way, but we have a destiny already for us.Seems funny but happen all the time.
[i]All the best,Agihcam
@enihpesoj_zetroc (190)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
i should know myself too well more than anyone does.if i feel i can't,then i won't.what the use cheating yourself?if you feel you can't take to witness his wedding then don't force yourself to do it just to show him or other people who knows your past relationship with him you got over him coz you'll just get yourself hurt more.there's no use of proving anything to him or to anybody anyway...it won't even help ya to move on...try to always be true to yourself..[that's what one of the things i keep tellin' myself..hehehe]..heaps dear!..="^_^"=