Love or Be Loved?

Philippines
August 11, 2008 1:22am CST
how do we love? is loving means that you will love someone if that someone will love you too? can't it be loving a person though he or she does not love you and hoping for nothing in return? one example of this was when a man courts a woman he would always say that he loves her. but when the woman turned down the poor guy then the story of ends and this man stops saying to the woman he loves her and the worst is he would even curse the woman for turning him down.
2 responses
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Aug 08
for me, its good to be loved and love that person who loves me. it can be from both sides. one sided love has never acted well.its always nice when you feel you are loved so much.
leomilson
@leomilson (170)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
yes it's true. it's a great feeling that there's someone you love that loves you too. but in my opinion loving a person without expecting anything, it will just be a bonus if that person you love will love you too. then it would not be a selfish love for you did not ask for love but instead it was given to you.
quawertz
@quawertz (777)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I would definitely like to be loved. I fall in love so easily so there will be no problem. If I don't like the person, I will say it as early as possible.
leomilson
@leomilson (170)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
well? all of us wants to be loved. but to love without expectations i think would be the best.