My nugger wife.....

sorry ... but from what i have read ... i can see there is some male ego, leader, autorative, intelligent , only the best ... are this your characters. Can you be more relaxed ... life is short .. she is your other half ...

I am also a wife, But i think or maybe i was the only one doing this there's a certain reason why do wive's nag. Maybe your wife is looking some attention or even a little appreciation. Thats why maybe nagging was her way of letting you know her presence, or maybe lack of communication, there's a reason why she's acting that way. Better ask her if somethings bother her communication is the best way to clear everything.:)

I used to be like your wife at the first months of our marriage. I should call myself a little bit selfish. Maybe it's because I always get what I want when I was single and now that we should share anything together with our spouse it will need time to adapt with the new situation. I think your wife will learn to be patient in time, and she will need your encouragement. If she really loves you it wouldn't be a hard matter if she changes her views and behavior. Hope the best for you two..

Nagging is an irritable form of communication which I cannot tolerate too. I remember during my teenager years when my mom use to nag to me a lot of things repeatedly. But now I understands why she does that. Mother wants the best for me and she wants to correct my ways and wants me to improve for the better. If I dont do what she likes me to do, then she would repeat saying those things until I do it. Thats nagging. I have learn some tips that I could share will you. First, "Agree" with her. whether you agree or not, just say "yes" By telling her that you agreed with her she will eliminate her 1 hour of nagging into 5 minutes. At least it saves your ear from hearing those repetitive complains that she wants to say. When you know that she is about to nag you, like for example the mess you made and you haven't clean it up because you are watching your game on the television, you should tell her first that you need to watch the game, and it will finish in an hour, and you are going to clean up the mess yourself. And you have to do it, so she would not nag you anymore, always keep your promise. Even you have a busy or tight schedules of work,you still have to show love to your wife, don't forget that, always tell her you love her, this makes us happy, hug her, give her surprises just like you did while you were dating before. If you got tired of her nagging and if she never stops nagging, TAKE A BREAK!. Maybe you can sleep over to your parents or friends house for a day or two. But you need to tell her that you love her before taking a break, and give some reasons and tell her when you will be back so she wont worry. When you return give her a gift or a surprise that she will surely like. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" I do believe in this quote. Maybe this could help. She will be missing you for a day or two. And she might eliminate her nagging. Or you might miss her nagging for 2 days. There are also somethings in our lives that we cannot change, you also need to tell her that if she really loves you, she has to accept who you are and need to stop complaining, because it will never change. That is already a part of you. Nagging will surely never stop if you don't listen to her complain, try to communicate with her. COMMUNICATION is the greatest power, accompanied by LISTENING. If nobody listens then it is a waste of time. I hope I can help.

Woman or wife can be a hard work sometimes! I am married so I know that! But try to appreciate your wife even in a simple way, woman also loves to be complimented that makes us feel good. And you will get the best in return! You know sometimes in relationship because you are married you think everything is ok because you both tied up to each other..... I think we still have to work with it and be open of everything! Let your partner knows what annoy's you most the time! and if you having a big fight try to fix it as soon as you can, because it can get bigger and that will lead you to a seperation! This is just an advice still up to both of you to work with it! Fixing a big argument as soon as you can work with me and my husband.

hai, the problem is she feels that you have neglected her, it also happens after you have a child. maybe not you but there are so many man out there who cheat & look for new woman. Talking is not a very productive method, you must look for something lauder why dont you have a white board in your house .. put 2 columns on it (HIM & HER) .. Everytime your wife feel you made a mistake ~ ask her write at your column your mistakes . Sames goes to you ... Try for 1 month or 2 month ... ( do realise what is simple for you may mean big deal for her) Then, go through it together .. you can see clearly your habits that your wife don approve of and you of hers Do go for a break together... wish you all the best ...

Why would she nag if there is nothing for her to nag? Lol. Perhapes you could try having a good talk with her and let her know the things that irritates you about her, and she do the same to you. From there, you could perhapes see that it is not the simple things that matters a lot to her, but perhapes it is just your attitude towards her? Who knows? I am very sure you love your wife a lot, otherwise you would not get married to her, right? Think back on the times when both of you were dating. Think back on the reasons that you fell in love with her. Think back on the fond memories, and things would work out. I wish you all the best in your relationship. And update us on what is happening, k? Take care!