will you choose a marriage partner based on physical apperances or character.
By Favour3
@Favour3 (12)
August 11, 2008 6:49am CST
when you are ready for marriage. who qualifies to be your spouse. should you decide on looks or character or Both.
Also i think you have to marry someone one you admire and someone who exciets you.
but charcter also counts.
will you choice be based on Color, Enticity, Religion or all.
you are welcome to share
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7 responses
@whkaren (25)
• China
11 Aug 08
hi Favour3 , i think personality is the most important thing .yea,when you meet some new friends ,those who have good looks are more attractive to you first,what will happen after you get familiar with each other? dont pay more attention to their appearance, right? who is the RIGHT person for you? that man or woman who can make you happy and comfortable is the right one, what can make you happy? i think it is the positive personality not the looks. of course if you can find a person with good personality and also good looks, that would be GREAT! what do you think?
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@Intriguing (20)
• Spain
11 Aug 08
Who qualifies is somebody that makes me feel good and appreciated.
Somebody i can share the good and the bad sides of life.
Basically everything comes before then look.
Color and etnicity don't matter at all.
Religion can be a problem only if she want to impose her own religion on me, thing i wouldn't accept. I do respect any religion though.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I don't believe people should get ready to be married, then go find a certain kind of spouse. I think people should be ready to get married by loving and committing to their partner.
I fell in love with my husband's intelligence and I married him because I love being with him and I wanted to make it legal.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
11 Aug 08
I will go for character, rather than physical appearance, physical appearance will fade one day, I believe.
@cristine3276 (893)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
I consider the character as a great factor in choosing the man/woman to marry. It is just alright to have a partner with mediocre looks as long as he has outstanding character traits. I believe it is the character of each spouse the one that breaks or makes up one's marriage.
@DavidNag (80)
• India
11 Aug 08
u can spend a lifetime with one who is not that attractive to see ..think abt a life with a bad character person...it will be hell.....so only character matters next comes looks.... "chudithar podravaellam nallavallum illa,jeans la suthurava ellam kettavallum illa...kathal'ra perla ematharavanga mattum than kolluven...."
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I could never judge based on color, ethnic, nor religion. I believe everyone has a soul mate even if it takes a couple of trys trying to find that one. So when I decide on marring someone I would base it on how I really feel about that person along with my gut feeling. If when I am with this person it feels right and I can't see my life without them then yes I believe I found the right one. I think physical attraction is needed. I always judge on their personality and see if it could get alone with mine. I also need a person with a ken sense of humor because of the way I am. But I also believe they have to be attractive in my eyes but that must not be all considering personality can make ones physical appearence just as ugly!