how do you know if you have found the right person to marry

Hello whkaren, I would have to agree with T-Rex-Boi, you never truly know. The best you can do is know at the time of your vows that you are indeed making this commitment with your heart, head and soul. Personally I believe that if you have any bad feelings, vibes or whatever you want to call them about the pending marital vows then I would strongly suggest you step back and re-evaluate this commitment. I am not saying pull out, but be sure your heart, mind and soul are all content with the decision you are making. It is a huge decision and one that will change your life forever. People say marriage is just a piece of paper, but that piece of paper changes things forever. Hope this helps !! Lillie