What is the worst part about a break up in relationship?

Getting over the break up and moving on. I was in a bad relationship which lasted for 16 yrs and produce 3girls. It was so traumatic that it took me 4 yrs to overcome it and start over again. Depression sets in and if you are not strong enough it will shatter you and yes, those poor souls too that were a blessing to you. Time will heal the wounds but the scar remains and this will always remind you of that painful break-up, that is why, you will never feel complete or whole again. There is always this feeling of emptiness inside, though you have moved on and is happy with your new life.

i think moving on is really the toughest and the worst part of breaking up, it's a way of leaving behind where you used to stand then oblivion crawls slowly and slowly heals the burden you might feel upon moving forward to a new phrase of your life.

I think the worst part is knowing their gone and getting over them...those parts hurts the most !!! sometimes you get adjusted to having a boyfriend or girlfriend and when you guys go seperate ways its so hard to adjust back to your normal life...Idk , love hurts and It takes a lot out of me to say that but its the truth..

I think the worst part about a break up in a relationship is the fact that other lives might be affected by such break up. A concrete example would be in a married relationship: if both husband and wife decided to divorce or legally separated it would just be easy for them to do so especially if they don't agree anymore with each other but if they have children, the lives of these little ones will be gone astray. Adults can or might be able to move on with their lives but children would be having difficult times in coping up with such trauma.

Losing half of everything is tough, but waving to your children as you leave is hardest. Every situation is different, children are always the losers regardless of the why's and hows. Luckily I have a 20yr old I see often, and a 5yr old with whom I have 30% access. There were bad moments before and after seperation but I stayed far too long in an unhappy relationship...twice! We see each other weekly, thats the price for leaving, but our sons we created together are magic human beings. NEVER again will my life include marriage, long term relationships or live in situations...but maybe sleep overs can remain. If you're unhappy with life, then there is a reason...address it now!!