my sister saw the man i love with somebody else!!well happy weekend to me
By petiksmode
@petiksmode (2983)
Philippines
August 11, 2008 5:03pm CST
what i way right hehehe..i asked him not just once if he is seeing other girls ans he denied it everytime well my sis and his guy saw this guy i am seeing with someone else..and she even asked who the girl is so to free me from further humilation i toldm em that eh was with his gf and that i know about that and there is nothing going onbetween me and the guy..
i feel lyk my world stopped and it was only monday (earlier) when he admitted that since i strightly asked himto do so..
yeah it way too painful but i cant get mad at him for i love him so much tohate him...but that doesnt i will stay with him..i would like to move on and just be tahnkful for some reason he meade me realize how much i am capable of loving someone...
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12 responses
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Hello, is someone there? Come on special one! Are you kidding me? You are so inteligent and brilliant so move on to the good man for you, even though now seems painful, soon will not. Get to know new people (guys) or get very busy so you are not thinking about him ok? Just so many things to do go get busy and forget this bad one! Luv u! LOL
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
12 Aug 08
That's right. There will be someone destined for you. Someone who can love you more than you beyond your expectations. The pain will be there and you will have sleepless nights but those will be soon gone. Valeria is right and she has a point. Go out and meet people. Who knows, the right one for you is just somewhere... out there.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yeah you are right why will i waste my time thinking on someone who doesnt give a d*mn about me ayt? i am special and if he didnt know it and if he will that will be too late..
thnks valeria..you are so sweet..
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yeah i actually closed all dating encouters with any otehr guy when i am still with this guy but rgihtafter i have learned about the betrayal and someone asked me out i said yes...now i can look at someone else and go out to anybody i like...
thnks
@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
That's the right attitude. Don't dwell on the matter. Do what is right and in this case, break off with him. he does not deserve you. There are many fishes in the ocean and you deserve a better kind of person than one who cannot even tell the truth or be honest with you. You think you love him but after a while, you will know he does not deserve your love. Come on, do it and be done with him
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yeah though he is sorry, i even asked him sorry for what? hehehe..well i fell better now but still mending the pain i feel inside but as optimistic as i am i know there is someone in there who will love me back,,,thnks
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I am sorry that your sister has unintentionally opened this wound for you. I would like also like to say that I hope you find a man who will not cheat you so and that you can love just as much as he loves you. I know that you are hurting because of his betrayal but I hope that you will avenged by these words : A cheater always gets cheated. I hope you have a wonderful and lovely day.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
well unil now i realy dont what to feel..iwanna get mad at him but i cant feel anything like it in my heart..like i have said i am just tahnkful for all the learninggs that i g=have got in the relastionship..
thnx...
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I know how you feel about wanting to be mad and feeling like your in love. I felt like I was in love with a man before, and after he broke up with me I thought that i'd never meet another. I met the man I will marry and one day you will too! Good Luck!
@creative_genius (992)
•
12 Aug 08
Better to find out now than later. You have the right attitude, I really admire that. Break the relationship off completely, if a man cheats and lies to you he doesn't respect you. Therefore personally I wouldn't even want to stay friends. He does not deserve you, and I know it is a cliche but there are plenty other fishes in the sea and you deserve the best who loves only you.
Spend time with friends and family who make you feel happy. Treat yourself to something small which makes you feel like a million dollars such as a facial. Keep yourself busy and you will be surprised how quickly you get over him.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
hmm the hard part again is he is a friend not only to me but also to most of my friends and siblings...well if the pain is not there i think we still be friends i can be a godo friend to anybody even to those who have hurt me in the past and he is not an exception i think...the first person who cheated on me and a good friend of mine today...well ironically hehehe
@tarah24marie (8)
• United States
12 Aug 08
girl i am soooo sorry to hear that it sucks to find out your fears are true...but girls always have that sence (womans intutition)... you must rememeber once a cheater always a cheater he is not going to stop because he knows you are just going to accept it and move on.... Suprise him and leave move on there are other fish in the sea and you decerve to be loved like you love him... He really don't love you if he cheats on you... sorry but its true.. hope you make the right decision.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
thnks fo thr reminder girl...yeah i am leaving him and he will soon realize how much he sacrifice for not having me lols...
@FR35H_70_D347H (32)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Wow. I'm sorry. That sucks. But it's better you know now, and can just kick his sorry a** to the curb. My ex boyfriend cheated on me, once that I had known about, with one of my good friends. Then we broke up about 11 months later, and he got with my best friend at the time, then I found out from her he had cheated on me multiple times. And he was my first love, so I was crushed. But now I'm over it and happily taken by someone I love very much that loves me back. Like I said, it's better to know now then waste so much on a person who doesn't have those feelings back.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yeah i understadn you like you i have fallen for him so much that i cant believe that he is capable of cheating on me but he did it and i cant do anything on that no more..
thnks i am happy for you have the love of you life
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
12 Aug 08
if he is a kind of a guy who cheats, then he's not good for you. You deserve someone better, someone who you can trust and rely on. It is better to go on separate ways than let him come back in your life again. A cheater is a cheater. No matter how many times you understand him and forgive him, he will still go back to cheating after some time.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
12 Aug 08
I must admit i am little bit surprised how well and sportingly you have taken this case. he is seeing a girl. you oove him dearly and obviously it gives you lot of pain. still you are ok with it. I think this sacrifice is great.hope you get someone better
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
hmm meyba becoz i know that i will not get anythign from being miserable or anything like it..life has a lot to offer while i am young so i dont need to be bother by this so much,,but yeah i am in pain as well..
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Just hang in there. If you loose someone, it will not surely be the end of the world for you. Because the right one will come along. According to God's master plan for you.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yeah really dont feel like it is the end of the world or anything i love life more than i love him lols..
yeah God will surely have someone for me...thnks
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
lols...the thing is this time he admitted it that it was his gf...
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yeah that is sad but there is always apostive side of every coin so i just need to focus on that...
@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I am sorry to hear about this, but obviously this man does not love you, and you need to be angry and hate him right now. The faster you get over him, the better you will be, and you will be able to find a man that will appreciate you. You can't subject yourself to a man that lies to you and others about seeing other people, he does not respect you. Just let go sooner and you will be able to get happy again. Good luck with everything.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
i am tryign my very best to let go of the feeling...i am engaged more ayt now with my friends adn that helps me a lot...i am more focus on my work...and i would like to better person not for him but for myself as well...and sooner he will realize how wrong he is to hurt me hehehehe...
