What is up with men and anal???

ive done anal and its ok but i can really live without it. some men like anal to feel more powerful just to hurt you a little more than they would in the cat. plus if you dont have alot of lube its pointless its going to hurt both partners.

gurl aint you bold for asking......lol first i have had anal many times and got a good butt to show for it. i guess men are obsessed because it's a tighter spot lol. it's not uncomfortable to me u just gotta loosen up poo before you start and have your back arched with butt in the air. hope this helps

Did you enjoyed it, ask him about it. I love doing it.

Hi, Many many years ago in my younger days, my b/f at the time tried to do it and it hurt so bad, I said NO MORE!! My future husbands were never interested in doing it and personally I was glad. My b/f (the same one as many years ago) tried to do it again a couple of months ago but had to stop because it was too painful. He even said that we needed more lube. I might try it in the future, but it wouldn't bother me if he never tried it again. [i]Happy MyLotting, Char[/i]

i am virgin. personally, i do not like anal. what is the fun in pumping like a jack hammer? in a dilated big hole. uuunnnhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

Hey pixie, I'm afraid that what most of the women have said is true. It's just a tighter spot and that's what men want. And just about every man want's it! I have done it a few times with a few different men and I just don't like it. It's a really uncomfortable feeling as you said. You described it perfectly. And I hate to tell you but it really isn't going to get much better. It may hurt a little less but that uncomfortable feeling will still be there.

You said farther down in the discussion that you do this to please your husband, that is good to a point, we don't have to do everything that they seem to want to make them happy, things that you don't like you should not have to do. You said you could live with out it which means you truly do it cause he wants it. We love our husbands but when they do something that makes us feel uncomfortable then we should be able to talk to them about it. If they still insist then they really are only concerned about what they want and what satisfies them. Marriage is a 2 way street, and I refuse to do something that I tried and it hurt me, are you worried that if you don't do all he ask for that he will look someplace else for it. You seem to be young and will find that you will try to please to a point then you will say no, if he loves you he will find other ways to pleasure you and him together. Good luck either way.

I had the same dilemma not to long ago, i introduced anal to my fiance and now he always asks if we can do it that way. I've learned that if you relax and have some lube it is really enjoyable and less uncomfortable. I think that you both need to enjoy it though, so if you really don't like it, then tell him. Luckily for my fiance we both get enjoyment out of it. Good luck.

Personally I feel it is the Thrill of the forbidden. That and you really got to trust someone to do it.:

Hi there I have done it once with my girl, but I didn't like it so much, neither did she.. And I am not obsessed with it, she asked me if I wanted to try it.. Have a good day..

I wouldn't wanna try doing this.