He loves me Even Im Lazy..
By nice030481
@nice030481 (1109)
Philippines
August 11, 2008 10:43pm CST
Last night i ask my husband, why you love me. He answered, i dont know, you are lazy but i still love you. and he ask me too the same question, i really dont know the answer all i know is i love him too. and i never live without him. i think it is really what you call love.
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@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Well, that's just true love my Friend! You can never belittle the intensity of that feeling that even if it becomes the wildest of your dreams to imagine the reason why you love the person, yet you still do. Beyond all the limitations in the world, loving a person truly is one great joy, right?
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Well i think that is what you call as unconditional love for one another. Good that you have that and if you could hold on to that then good for you and your husband. There are many bumps in the road ahead and you should stay as strong as where you are right now.
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
actually we are currently suffering for financial problem, especially next month that i will give birth to my second baby. but still were happy just being with each other. i hope we will never change, until we grow old.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
That even is a great pressure on the love since financial problems are the ones that may destroy that unconditional love. But it is all up to you and your partner how strong can you two hold on to each other. Maybe you could also drive yourself to help him in someways to be productive it may even make it stronger than it is for now.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
12 Aug 08
One love one for oneself, no matter what we are. So such relationships are blessed. I too still love my husband after 23 years of marriage and he too loves me a lot. Good luck.
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
wow,23 years of marriage is such a long time. we are only 2 years and seven months married, it will takes long year to be like you. good luck too. you are really blessed.
@ayenacsi (910)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
i remember asking my husband the same thing and lol, got the same answer ! It is good to hear that a person loves you in spite of your shortcomings because you realize that he truly loves you for what you are. But when he said that to me, i try to be more attentive to his needs so he won't say that i'm being lazy again....
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
lol, i already admit that im really lazy before he met me. and that is also what i always told him when he still courting me, but what can i do, i am not n good cook, so i cant serve him, but he is good in cooking, so he is the one to serve me, i dont wash our clothes because im also working like him. im am really not that good in housekeeping.
@lipsticknladdles (814)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
there's so many things about ourselves that's not worth loving. But when you love someone, you accept the whole package. Im so darn lazy too and i have so many flaws but my husband loves me so much. He isnt perfect either but I love him with all that he is...
I guess, we're just among the lucky wives, dont u think? =)
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
i think your right. but you know at first, i dont even think that he is the one for me, i always dont give him hope on the time he is courting me, until i fell in love with him.
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
12 Aug 08
oh yes, love without any reason is love, loveing the bad habit, is love. One can only love a person when he/she dont know "why they love".. confuseing statment
.. but love is magic and imposible can happen.
A time, we dont have words to experess the feeling and dont have answers.. to the question "why?" = is love. thanks and enjoy
.. but love is magic and imposible can happen.
A time, we dont have words to experess the feeling and dont have answers.. to the question "why?" = is love. thanks and enjoy
@duttmyneni (198)
• India
12 Aug 08
That is called love and when you are love, don't try to find the reasons why you love them you cant find one. Love is such an awesome feel that when you are in love then you will have a feel that you are the happiest person in this world. Don't ever try to find the reasons why you are in love when you are in love, just keep loving everything in them.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Oh that was so sweet. That's indeed what you call love. If you love someone, you'll accept for what and who he is. And in return, he'll do the same. I remember my husband telling me "Though you are moody most of the time, I love you more each day". HUGZ!
@wenczmastah (640)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yea that's love.. however lazy you are or however you look if he/she still likes you no matter what, that's love
