can you live without your mother beside you?
By tuayon_san
@tuayon_san (299)
Philippines
August 12, 2008 12:01am CST
the role of the mother is very important...
they serve as the friends, mother and sister their son or daughter..
they are the big the factor in molding their child as a human being who interact in a society..
how important is your mother for you?
do you even care for her?
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7 responses
@pradysgirl (246)
• India
12 Aug 08
I wish I had all the time in this world to be with my mom, as it happens in pain or gain I think of my mom first. it has been a decade since I got married, never a day has passed without remembering her. eventhough I am very far from her, being a mom myself I know how it feels to be away from kids. but family takes all my priority now. i make sure to call her everyday and try to be with my parents( as my dad is also equally important to me ) when the kids get the vacation.this is most I can do as a married daughter satying at a distance place. but iám there for them whenever the need arises.
@tuayon_san (299)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yes
it is very difficult to be away from your parents..
you will missed all the good memories with them..
right?
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@i12read (57)
• United States
13 Aug 08
My mother is very important to me. Even though we moved 1400 miles away (not because of her), we still talk almost every day. My kids also talk to her regularly, and both parents have visited us several times. When my parents were in an accident, even though I have lots of family close to them, I was on the phone with the hospital getting things taken care of that no one else would do.
@tuayon_san (299)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
sorry to hear that.
exactly it is because
we can't afford that something
bad happens to our parents.
Im sure that they are fine now..
@i12read (57)
• United States
14 Aug 08
Yes, they are fine now. The accident was about 17 months ago. They were actually pretty lucky. They were driving my brother's old car, and the salesman at the dealership told him it didn't have a passenger-side airbag anymore, but they were hit on the passenger side and the airbag did deploy. My mom was in the hospital for 17 days, the first week of that in ICU.
@dani27 (544)
• United States
12 Aug 08
My mom is very important in my life. I don't think I could handle living in a different state than her. We talk on the phone, visit with each other and whenever I need her she can come over and help me out. Ihope that my daughter feels the same way about me someday.
@tuayon_san (299)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
Thats very true....
Im sure she will.
coz what you did to your
parents your kids will do it
with you also.
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
I care for my mom and I do love her but I believe there will come a time that we have to separate our ways from our mom especially when we already have our own family.Right now I'm trying to be independent from my mom.Wish I could go on with my life without her always on my side coz I'm not a child anymore.I have to learn how to stand on my own but of course I will still consider her advises to me.
@tuayon_san (299)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
your right!
when we have form or build
our own family we need to
live without their support
we need to stand with our own feet
to test our endurance in facing
several trials in we may encounter.
But of course it doesn't mean that
we will leave them for the rest of our lives.
we still have to have them as well.
@naseeha (1382)
• India
12 Aug 08
I love my mother very much. But before i got married and came to live away from her, i did not understand her and resented some of her ways. But then when i was away from her i understood everything about her and my love for her has multiplied.
I want my mom to live long and live a healthy and happy life..
@tuayon_san (299)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
thats very true..
because you now experienced the role
of being a mother. and it is not that
easy at it is.
that is why you now understand her
specially when you did wrong before
and she always bat in to say "hey
baby thats wrong and you need to do like
this bla bla bla....
so hows to be a mother?
@DKQANS143 (48)
• United States
14 Aug 08
When I was very young and in elementary school, my parents divorced and by choice I wanted to live with my dad. Mainly due to the fact that my mom had a verbally abusive boyfriend that I didn't care to be around that she soon would marry. I would visit my mom often, but the phone was our main contact. I have since grew up and now have 2 young kids of my own and in the course of that time, my mom has divorced the guy who was abusive to her. I love her with all my heart, but I have never been totally close to her in a way that it would be hard for me to go a week without talking to her. I do make it a point to call her though and if I don't, my 2 year old will somehow end up with my cell phone and call her LOL.
@tuayon_san (299)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
its very hard for the chldren to choose where they want to live and who they want to be with. But in your case you choose your father because of the issue of your mother..
But as you grow older, you will feel that your life is incomplete because your mother is all around, right?
Although ur parents are both important, you can't hide the fact that its hard if your mother is not with you...
Although you communicate through phone, are you satisfied with it?
Ofcourse i know that you really miss your mom and you want her to be with you, RIGHT?
by the way, thanks for sharing....
@rup011 (725)
• Germany
14 Aug 08
I cannot imagine my life without my mother. I live far away from her, since I had to leave the country and accompany my husband after marriage. So I miss her every day. my mother has been my friend, my sister, in fact everything. I never felt the need of having a best friend since my mother is my best friend. But as the years roll by, I am always afraid of loosing her. She is getting old and my heart stops thinking that one day she will not be with me. Oh God!!!!
