i think i need help!!!!!
By shrestha1
@shrestha1 (123)
Nepal
August 12, 2008 7:10am CST
i am really a gutless person i love a gal who knows that i love her then also i am afraid to go to talk to her when ever i am infront of her my mind is nil and i can't think a word, i am speech less i don't know how to approach to her even i that she will never approach to me first, i am in a great delema(trouble) she and i am in the same class then also i am not being able to do something....
what to do i am really sad!!
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9 responses
@hajime86 (21)
• Malaysia
12 Aug 08
hey bro, in my opinion, what u need to do most now is to go and talk to her! a simple 'hi' will pave into a better conversation. if u not dare to make the 1st move, u WILL not get to know at all... who knows she's waiting for u to make the 1st move? girls r usually shy!
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@shrestha1 (123)
• Nepal
12 Aug 08
hey thanx fren 4 that i can say hi but what after that how to continue the conversation wen i am out of words it really geeks me out.. do u know smthing that i can use???
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@hajime86 (21)
• Malaysia
12 Aug 08
well, i read ur comment post on the earlier respond, well if u already tried to talk a numerous times, and gave her a call. it wasnt so bad after all right? u made some progress but it didnt turn out to be the way u expected.
well bro, to be honest, when a girl is a bit reluctant to reply ur message, or getting agitated to know who disclose her number to u... its most probably she's not interested in having relationship yet.
nevertheless, i believe if u truly love her, she'll bound to know that fact sooner or later, just be patient and act normally in front of her. pretend that she's just one of ur casual frens, chat usual stuff like when with ur buddy.
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@tonnecheg (32)
• Ghana
12 Aug 08
Many young nubies have faced such problems when it comes to talking to a girl to say I love you.Yes the girl may khow that you love her but ones you have not opened you mouth to say it she will keep on expecting it from you. My good friend be bold and tell her. Even if she says no, I do not think you will die. Otherwise, a faster who takes the lead to say it may have her and you will be a loser. Good luck.
@shrestha1 (123)
• Nepal
12 Aug 08
i can't intend to loose her in any case coz i love her a lot i will try my best wish me luck!!! hehe
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@duttmyneni (198)
• India
12 Aug 08
its so sad and i can understand you pain. you said that even that girl knows that you love her then what is the problem with you. Just go to her and say about your pain (love and feelings towards her) then, i think she will surely says yes to you. If you still cant go to her and tolk then try to get her number and call her and express her. Try to do something don't lose someone you love. let me Know, what she says to you when you express her.
@shrestha1 (123)
• Nepal
12 Aug 08
i know what, you may b thinking i am trying my best
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Is this the same girl that your friend got you the number for???
You haven't talked to her yet?????
It has been weeks lol what are you waiting for. 
You need to just ask her something about school or something. Or better yet tell her that you are failing and you need her tutoring. Girls love tutoring!
You haven't talked to her yet????? It has been weeks lol what are you waiting for. You need to just ask her something about school or something. Or better yet tell her that you are failing and you need her tutoring. Girls love tutoring! @shrestha1 (123)
• Nepal
12 Aug 08
ya you are right its the same girl i dun know what happens wen i get near her as i told i am speechless i really get gutless infront of her. and about asking her about tutoring????? i have spoken her once or twice in 2 weeks. telling of truth i sent her msgs but she didn't replied. may be she didn't knew tht it was my number and i finally called her in the frndship day she acted nice but in a really small voice. we talked not more than 6 mins and she asked me that who gave me that numba and after a long force i told her and the other day she scold to that fren who was kinda really close to her this dissapointed meh and i became more gutless now what i am supposed to do????
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@shrestha1 (123)
• Nepal
12 Aug 08
ok then heres the total details now in my college premises she also watches me or in other words i am noticed by her a lot than i hav been in the past days when ever i turn back in class or jus pretend to look her her eyes and face has such a strange looks in my view my friends also tell meh "what happened to her now a days she is lookin at you" jus give meh one gud topic frm which i could start a gud conversation i swear to god i will make it...
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Ahhhh I hate breaking hearts but she may not be interested.
Didn't you say before she had a boyfriend? What happened to him??? Well maybe if she got to know you things would be different. When you spoke to her what did you speak to her about other than the phone conversation?
Also girls really like guys with confidence but not to much. So when you talk to her if you sound like you know what you are talking about *and you need to relax* then she might be like hummmmmm maybe he will move on if i dont act fast, Girls love when a guy is all into them. But not when they can be the only one. If you try so hard then she will be like *i can have him anytime* But it might just depend on the girl. AHHHHHH this is so confusing when I don't know every detail. I guess I would suggest you try harder and get to know her more. Stop studdering and getting nervious! Practice your nerves haha!
Didn't you say before she had a boyfriend? What happened to him??? Well maybe if she got to know you things would be different. When you spoke to her what did you speak to her about other than the phone conversation? Also girls really like guys with confidence but not to much. So when you talk to her if you sound like you know what you are talking about *and you need to relax* then she might be like hummmmmm maybe he will move on if i dont act fast, Girls love when a guy is all into them. But not when they can be the only one. If you try so hard then she will be like *i can have him anytime* But it might just depend on the girl. AHHHHHH this is so confusing when I don't know every detail. I guess I would suggest you try harder and get to know her more. Stop studdering and getting nervious! Practice your nerves haha!1 person likes this
@srini33333 (710)
• India
12 Aug 08
yea it really happns in a lotta cases...i was also dumb wen i wantd2 propose2 a gal...she knew tht iloved her...later i got some courage & spok wit her to get rejected hope ur case aint so..all t best...
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@izhuce13 (158)
• China
12 Aug 08
every people will feel bashful in front of their lover, it is very common thing. when i was in my high school days, i also loved a girl, but i never said a word to her, and now, i do not see her again.
i still remember at that time, when i came accross with her, my heart palpitated quickly,and i do not even have the courage to take a direct vision at her.
come on,brother! take the chance!or you will regreted years latter! go ahead!
@shrestha1 (123)
• Nepal
12 Aug 08
you were more than i am but i dun know how start and approach what if she thinks -ve about meh???
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@MOMMASAM (1004)
• United States
13 Aug 08
great topic for discussion !
you say she knows that you love her.
but, how does she feel about you?
it is totally natural that your mind would be blank
when you are close by someone that you care about deeply.
a safe way to start, might be to discuss the same class you
two are taking. at least that breaks the ice. it is a safe
topic.
once the ice is broken it will be easier to talk to her.
if you have a friend, bring them along, too.
this will help your confidence in saying that first sentence.
this is all so sweet.
makes me remember my younger days !
good luck to you.
remember, that first sentence will break the ice.
@shrestha1 (123)
• Nepal
15 Aug 08
thanx but what does that breakin ice means i couldn't understand very well!!!!
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
Take courage and be a man. Try to be friends with her first then try to know what makes her happy then when you know them already try to do those things for her. Maybe she'll notice and soon you could tell her already your true feelings. 
I wish you all the best with her.
I wish you all the best with her. @kukucz (10)
• Poland
13 Aug 08
oh...thats sad..I know u r scared to talk to her, but think maybe she's shy too. I think you should jus talk to her maybe she's aiting for this. After school ask her if u can walk her home and just talk to her.It's not that scary.You have nothing to loose.Tell her you feel nervouse and she will understand it. Just tell her straight away how u feel bout her.I know it might sound scary but i think it's the best way. Good Luck!
