How to treat your girlfriend?

yeah! patience. and understanding. understand what she want, and act after understand what she want! =)

for me all girls are different but somehow sometimes they act the same.. because they are always influenced a lot by their friends.. sometimes you dont understand how they act in a particular situation, you get shocked.. and man always say ' these women will never be understood ' .. i've understood them they always tell their best friends about what happened and they give her directions and she beleives those directions are true to do.. thats why you get shocked.. there is no need to be harsh with your partner.. i am always soft to my girlfriend and i can do any sacrifice that i can do for her, however i have my boundaries and she knows that, i respect her boundaries, in time you get to know each other more closely then your partner dont get directions from him/her best friends so you two can be happy forever.. otherwise you get cheated or get dumped.. because if you had a disagreement and the girl cried over it for nothing.. then her friends saw that she cries, she loves you a lot but her friends try to get her colder to you and seperate you, they try to set her another man :) beware of the 'best friends' and be good friends with them.. then you can have a healthy relationship.. dont let anyone involved to your relationship..

my bf tells me he knows the way i think. i have that attitude where i use to make arguments just for the sake of argument. i just want the attention. and whenever i do that, he would make this cute face and tell me, "no you're not mad at me..." and he's right. no one's in control when you're in a relationship. having a relationship and keeping one needs hard work if you really want it to work. be patient! as in! PATIENCE is one of the key to the relationship! good thing my bf has a lot of it!

Very good observations skenthal. My boyfriend who is also Turkish lets me be in charge of the game in our relationship and yes, I can get a little out of line at times but my boyfriend does have boundaries that are just not to be crossed and he has set those very well where I know not to step and give him the respect where it is expected and I have no problem with that because he makes me feel like a queen and I do not see the problem with him treated me this way if he's ok with it but at the same time it really is a reflection to myself when I see how good he treats me and makes me want to push harder to be a better girlfriend to him because he is so full of love for me and I have never experienced the loyalty i feel with him with any other man.