I am sad.........couldn't digest it....
By manojjonam10
@manojjonam10 (350)
India
August 12, 2008 9:43am CST
I was loving a girl in my office, i never got closer to her to propose her,i like her speaking,charming smile,humor, i like all the part of her, when i visited her in her house, she gave me a photo album, she always been very friendly with me, i looked in to her photo albums, their parents, to my dismay i saw her in a photo with a handsome looking guy, she said that he was her future husband they are in love for two years,i just left her house with a bogus smile in my face and my heart broken, i was so sad and couldn't digest it anymore,i should have asked her before if she has a boyfriend, but i didn't i thought it was not decent to ask,i feel myself totally lost in life, just i am very sad.....couldn't digest it...
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13 responses
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
loving someone and finding out that the feeling can't be returned is really heartbreaking, it is normal to feel devastated and lonesome but you have to face the truth, what they say that truth hurts is true but it can really set us free from further pains. Finding out that your loveone is committed to another guy is really sad but we have to face it and accept the truth, that way you can eventually be free to move on and forget. the art of letting go is very simple yet very hard to do so you have to surround yourself with friendly and happy people especially those that really care for you.
that girl can never be yours - apart from the fact that she is already committed you also did not tell her the real feeling you felt inside.
move on - trust me - I've been there once. i'm saying it from experience, just forget her and learn to open your heart again.
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@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
yeah, thanks for your comforting comment, i will try to start my life again
@satyakam (1112)
• India
13 Aug 08
I'm very sorry my friend,i can understand your feeling as i also gone through this type of things,actually this is our fault,when we see any beautiful girl we take it granted that she is ours without knowing about her,her likings disliking.Am i right?But what to do?we are just ordinary man .we also have emotion feeling,we sometimes can't resist our feeling of love and it is spontaneous.please dont loose heart ,there is many things to achieve in life.Thanks
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@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
yeah, you are right whatever nice we see in our life we want it to be our's. but sometimes it turns out to be an another way
@Theresam (1177)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I am sorry that you heart is breaking. Office relationships are tricky-you are with these people all day long and sometimes share confidences etc. However there are still boundaries that need to be made.
Next time you are interested in someone, find out a little more about them whether they are in a relationship or not.
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@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
you are right office relations are very risky, its better to find about their status before moving further on any issue
@shana123 (2095)
• India
13 Aug 08
Im sorry for you things like this happens in life very often for most of them..
When you start to like a girl dont create any feelings with her unless and until your sure if she is not commited with anyone and you need to understand that is that girl moving with you as a friend or as a lover..Some say that they were good friends and they fell in love.. but that happens true for less people you might have seen many of your friend's marrying a girl who had been their friends before might be it works for some people.. But to become a life mate its totaally different...Hope your got me..
@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
thanks for your advice, i will try to follow your advice. looks like u are good with people management
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
Maybe she really isn't the girl for you. love is like that it comes at the right time when you least expect it. Hope you find the true love of your life soon.
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@belindabentley (223)
• United States
13 Aug 08
The wonderful thing about life is that miracles happen everyday! She might not marry him, or maybe you will fall in love with a girl tomorrow and not even think about this one, either way I am sure you are going to enjoy your future.
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@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
i like your viewing of life, i think you see life in a different perspective, if such things happen i will be happy
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
give yourselftime to mourn. hurt is not that easy to subside. we are humans so we get hurt. this will heal. lucky you that you found it out earlier. some of the people i know finds it out late. i have friend, her crush at the office courted her and she accepted his love. after a year of relationship she found out that the guy was getting married with his gf for three years. isnt it that much painful. so lucky you that you found it out earlier. chin up. life must have to go on. you will meet someone who is meant for you
@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
well i now want to get over the negative things again, i wanted to start from the beginning now
@sanzi1201 (644)
• China
13 Aug 08
I'm very sorry to hear that .Lot is necessary to everyone.Although you love her very much,there's no lot is not useful.So,you should be perk again to wait for your future bride.
@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
yeah, you are right luck might hold me next times, who knows it except the god
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I am sorry for this happening to you. It is not the first time this has happened to somebody. But I am not sure that that makes you feel any better. It has happened to the best of us. We meet someone and think that they are wonderful but they are taken by somebody else.
Perhaps you will find the love of your life when you least expect it. You are probably a very good and kind man. You deserve to find someone who will treat you nice and give you their full attention. Good luck!
@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
12 Aug 08
thank u for your consoling comment, i think its just everyone has to pass through such kind of difficult situation in life, i am not really in a mood to love again a girl again, i think it will take time and only time can be a medicine for me.thank you kind heartedness
@iambaiyunlvshui (122)
• China
13 Aug 08
sorry to hear that .maybe you should say it out early your love to her .maybe the man in the picture is you .
@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
well unfortunately that didn't happen because i was too gentle while speaking with her, she herself told me that i am very gentle and a decent guy
@luyanling (14)
• China
13 Aug 08
I'm sorry to hear that.But if she get married and live a happy life.You should feel happy.I think this is the real love.
@manojjonam10 (350)
• India
13 Aug 08
yeah sure, i will be happy if she lives well, where ever she is now she should be ahppy
@pagare_prashant (10)
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13 Aug 08
dont worry buddy..!!!! okey tell me one think.... who was the first person to step on moon???
ans: neil armstron.....
correct.......
now tell me who was next to him to step on moon..???
no one knows, who was him.....
understood..... be the first one and the whole world will know you..... if you proposed her before that person who is the future husband of her....now at this you both were together in some restaurant..... always be the first one friend....